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      01-15-2006, 03:38 PM   #89
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You always want what you can't have...and when you have it..you take it for granted

so true! all the boys i want have girlfriends
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      01-15-2006, 03:43 PM   #90
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so true! all the boys i want have girlfriends
oh, you poor thing...
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so true! all the boys i want have girlfriends
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      01-15-2006, 07:42 PM   #92
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Haha, I see you never went to a park with a sweet little baby in a stroller. I took my nephew once. Babe magnet!
I'm a father of a child who is now 5. Doesn't work too well in a large college town.
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      01-15-2006, 10:26 PM   #93
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No lie, but hot guys with little kids is definitely a turn on. But you gotta look past that and think "baggage...baggage" haha.

Guys have it rough nowadays. They are working a very fine line. You cant be too nice, or else we'll be bored. You cant be a dick, cause then we'll go elsewhere for someone who will treat us better. I need a guy who will keep me on my toes. But dont you hate that the ones you really want, are always taken!

exactly the opposite of a girl with kids, I see kids, I run the other way

a girl with kids is a deal breaker at this point in my life
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When you least expect it... thats all I have to say about this subject. And sharp1183 keep up the good work.
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I don't flock to men with kids. I AM a kid. I can hardly take care of myself, I don't want to date another person who has baggage.
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      01-15-2006, 11:30 PM   #96
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exactly the opposite of a girl with kids, I see kids, I run the other way

a girl with kids is a deal breaker at this point in my life
Yeah if i had a kid, i know i wouldnt get nearly 3/4 as many dates. It would just be a huge turn off. But i dont mean im gonna go and date as many dads as i can, im just sayin that it does bring a nuturing side to the man.
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      01-16-2006, 12:13 AM   #97
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I agree with you 101% on that~!
I'm currently in a relationship for almost 5 years now... Yet I still feel lonely. Lets just say I'd rather be single now.

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You always want what you can't have...and when you have it..you take it for granted
Ha ha ha! That reminds me of that one quote Christian Troy made on Nip/Tuck...hmmmm let's see...it goes something like "for every beautiful woman you see, there's a guy that's tired of banging her"

Ha ha ha ha ha ha !!!
That is the coolest show on TV!
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im just sayin that it does bring a nuturing side to the man.

Being a caring and loving father can seriously make a man a better person. Brings about some positive changes.
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      01-16-2006, 01:34 AM   #100
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I use to have real issues w/ always being single, but now that I know why I am, I'm perfectly ok w/ it. I'm a quality guy and I just don't settle for any girl, besides that my thinking is at times much beyond where most girls heads are. So it means more when I find a girl I click w/ and can enjoy her company, but even then I'm not really too incredibly anxious for anything to happen, just sailing and enjoying the scenery.
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      01-16-2006, 08:59 AM   #101
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Well if you still feel lonely and you've been in a 5 year relationship, you may want to re-evaluate your relationship....It may be that you are just very comfortable with her presence and afraid to let go....Let me tell you...its not a safe thing and will def hurt you in the future...(been there done that)...don't get me wrong..if I got what I wanted from her (the sense of belonging), I probably would have never had that feeling of loneliness (sp)

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I'm currently in a relationship for almost 5 years now... Yet I still feel lonely. Lets just say I'd rather be single now.
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      01-16-2006, 01:23 PM   #102
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...it goes something like "for every beautiful woman you see, there's a guy that's tired of banging her"
That's the law of "Marginal Utility!"
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      01-16-2006, 07:54 PM   #103
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Someone here mentioned that women always want what they can't have. I think the more appropriate statement is that they want what they can't and/or shouldn't have. Having a gf seems to always make you more desirable to most women.

Back when I was single, I used to also wonder where all to find a good woman. Then I started noticing a pattern. While I was single, there were no women to be found, but as soon as I got into a relationship women were coming out of the woodwork trying to date me. I looked carefully at that situation and realized that I was the same person with a girlfriend or without, but the difference was that when I had a gf, I was no longer looking. Even when I didn't have a gf, I would typically meet somone once I got to the point that I was fed up and stopped looking.

Now, I've been married for 5 years and I can see the same is still true. For hygiene reasons, I often don't wear my wedding band to work. On the days that I do wear my band, I seem to get more women flirting with me. So once again, we get to that idea of wanting what you shouldn't have.

I guess women have this 6th sense where they can tell when a guy is looking for a woman, which is likely an unattractive attribute. So, my advise is just stop looking for a gf and then things will eventually work themselves out.
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That's the law of "Marginal Utility!"

you just had to take something gutter and make it sound appropriate for dinner conversation didn't you!
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      01-16-2006, 09:10 PM   #105
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After college, I came back to work for my family, and now here I am in a world of no opportunities.


I did the same thing. Thankfully, a handful of my high school friends are still around here or else I would have gone crazy by now.

I do agree with everyone who has said you find someone when you're not looking, or at least that's certainly how it seems.
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      01-16-2006, 11:23 PM   #106
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How about you all stop talking about getting boyfriends/girlfriends on a "SATURDAY NIGHT" and go meet some new people!! just a suggestion.
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I'm tired of going out with my friends to bars and clubs every weekend because all my friends have girlfriends, and then there's me...the tag-along. They don't treat me like that, but that's how I feel. That's why I haven't even gone out with them in like three months now. You know...I could go out, but I just don't want to anymore.
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      01-17-2006, 01:03 AM   #108
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Someone here mentioned that women always want what they can't have. I think the more appropriate statement is that they want what they can't and/or shouldn't have. Having a gf seems to always make you more desirable to most women.
Its so true. I always want the guys i cant have. And its bad, the guy who is harder to get is the one i want more. I dont even look at the nice sweet single guy, i want the one whose taken.. i guess its a harder challenge and the chase is the best part. But, i def dont like ruining relationships, so ill try to stay away.
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You know...I could go out, but I just don't want to anymore.

No one ever gets a girlfriend by sitting around out home. you've gotta put yourself out there, even if it's flirting with the hot girl at nordstroms that helped you pick out a shirt. sooner or later you get a bite on whatever hook your baiting and SHHHAAAAZZAAAAMMM!
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No one ever gets a girlfriend by sitting around out home. you've gotta put yourself out there, even if it's flirting with the hot girl at nordstroms that helped you pick out a shirt.
Its true.
And let me tell u somethin else. The guy who doesnt outwardly flirt with me is the one ill be more interested in. For example.. tonight at work i had 2 guys come in to eat. Both 28yrs old. I never thought the one guy was attractive..so i didnt really pay attention. But then we started talkin about the east coast (hes from jersey) and his personality caught my eye. He never forwardly asked for my # nor did he say i was cute/hot/whatever.. But that sparked an interest in me cause he wasnt pushy.

If u want a girl, dont act interested. She'll be SO curious as to why u never asked her out, she'll prob ask u first.
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