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      06-23-2010, 11:12 AM   #23
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have crazy wild sex with her one last time, then when you're laying in bed, be all like "so, it's over"
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      06-23-2010, 01:38 PM   #24
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Drop her, but you won't. You'll have to learn the hard way.
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      06-23-2010, 01:41 PM   #25
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well your in azkaban, so unless harry potter is gonna bust you outta jail. tough luck.
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      06-23-2010, 02:27 PM   #26
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How important is trust to you? She doesn't seem to be mentally prepared to stay committed to you. Let her go back to her ex. She'll probably leave him again anyways.

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well your in azkaban, so unless harry potter is gonna bust you outta jail. tough luck.
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have crazy wild sex with her five last times, then when you're laying in bed, be all like "so, it's over"
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Seriously though, OP, move on
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PIIHB and move on.
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      06-23-2010, 04:57 PM   #29
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PIIHB and move on.
i like how you were gender specific
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      06-23-2010, 05:12 PM   #30
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PIIHB and move on.
best reply thus far
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      06-23-2010, 07:08 PM   #31
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we're going to dinner to talk things over
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      06-23-2010, 07:39 PM   #32
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From personal experience, you should be done with her. Unless she has some sort of revelation and seriously apologizes form her actions. It's hard to come back from that sort of thing, I have tired and it seems to never work. But who knows it can!
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      06-23-2010, 07:43 PM   #33
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I just want to kick this guy's ass. He knows we've been together for almost a year, but he continues to try and get her back. If i ever get the chance I'm gonna fucking destroy him.
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      06-23-2010, 07:46 PM   #34
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I just want to kick this guy's ass. He knows we've been together for almost a year, but he continues to try and get her back. If i ever get the chance I'm gonna fucking destroy him.
if she dumped you and started dating someone else wouldnt you want her back? Walk away obviously they have some unresolved feelings etc...bottom line she shouldnt of done it behind your back and that lack of trust will stay with you until its over, do it now and move on before it gets more serious
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nah don't do that. That your first instinct is to kick his ass. But really it takes two to tango.
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we're going to dinner to talk things over
Good luck bro.. hopefully you two can come to an agreement. It's obvious that you love her. Don't just drop her without thinking.
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      06-23-2010, 08:03 PM   #37
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Good luck bro.. hopefully you two can come to an agreement. It's obvious that you love her. Don't just drop her without thinking.
best advice i was ever given was this short quote

"If you're going to make mistakes, make them slowly"

before you make a big decision that might not be the right one, think about it for awhile first
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      06-23-2010, 08:07 PM   #38
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best advice i was ever given was this short quote

"If you're going to make mistakes, make them slowly"

before you make a big decision that might not be the right one, think about it for awhile first
+1. Its easy for a bunch of dudes to give advice from a 3rd person perspective when they don't have the same feelings for this girl that the OP has. If anyone has ever been in a situation such as this one (and been with someone for 10 months, nonetheless), then immediately dropping her and moving "on to the next one" is obviously easier said than done.
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      06-23-2010, 08:09 PM   #39
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+1. Its easy for a bunch of dudes to give advice from a 3rd person perspective when they don't have the same feelings for this girl that the OP has. If anyone has ever been in a situation such as this one (and been with someone for 10 months, nonetheless), then immediately dropping her and moving "on to the next one" is obviously easier said than done.
yea, i can tell people all day what to do in a relationship...but when it comes to me its a lot harder to see the truth especially when you truly care about the person.
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yea, i can tell people all day what to do in a relationship...but when it comes to me its a lot harder to see the truth especially when you truly care about the person.
Yeah man, with the girls I've been with, I can't think of one that I could just DUMP spontaneously. Hopefully the OP can work things out.
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I just want to kick this guy's ass. He knows we've been together for almost a year, but he continues to try and get her back. If i ever get the chance I'm gonna fucking destroy him.
i would hold back from doing that even though i know it is your first instinct (believe me i would want to do the same), it will just lead to more problems.

the fact that your girl has a committed back up doesnt sit right, i would just dump her because she obviously isnt committed to you.

how do you know she hasnt already met up with this guy for "coffee" without you knowing?
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      06-23-2010, 08:22 PM   #42
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LOL at OP's location being "Azkaban".
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I just want to kick this guy's ass. He knows we've been together for almost a year, but he continues to try and get her back. If i ever get the chance I'm gonna fucking destroy him.
Brah, it's your own GF's fault here. She's the one continuing to talk to him and probably leading him on. Definitely talk to her before going around trying to kick some ass.
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