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      11-12-2010, 09:09 AM   #1
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Going on a date tonight....

For the first time EVAR.

lol, don't get me wrong, I have hooked up with a lot of girls, but never actually went on a "real" date with a girl.

I was just wondering what are the do's/don't... Do we go for a drink before etc? Also, I have hooked up with that girl in a bar... so she is somewhat interested ahahha lol.

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Bring her a corsage. Girls love that shit.
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      11-12-2010, 10:34 AM   #3
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only buy her a corsage if you're taking her to the prom...

If its a first date. - Take her to a semi-nice place for dinner. Order a drink if she does (ask her first), and relax/enjoy...

other obvious things:
Open the door for her, (car as well as building doors) and be on decent behavior to the waiter/waitresses
pay for the dinner/date


I used to be a waiter in college at a nice first date place and girlsdefinitley pick up on how you treat other ppl, especially the waitstaff.

If you get a nice kiss at the end of the first date, consider it a successful date.
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DO:
-open doors
-pay
-tell her she looks nice

DON'T:
-ask her if she presses charges
-put things in her drink
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DO:
-open doors
-pay
-tell her she looks nice

DON'T:
-ask her if she presses charges
-put things in her drink

hahahahahah
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      11-12-2010, 11:00 AM   #8
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Keep the conversation light and focused on things *she* likes even if it bores you a little.

She must feel comfortable with you or it all will come to a grinding halt.

Don't stare at her tits.

Don't check out other women.

Don't even think about sex, and by that I mean pretend there is no chance you'll ever have it with her. This will cause you to be more relaxed and easy-going, and they always dig that. And she'll be more comfortable as a result.

Pay.

Open doors.

Don't talk dirty, that can come later. Talking nasty on the first date will make you look like a perv.

Smile, and keep a good attitude. Either this works out or it doesn't - I've been in both situations and life always goes on just fine.

If you decide you don't really like her, end it. Dragging things on just to get into her pants never ends well and isn't worth the sex.

Yeah, I've been on a few dates lol
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DON'T:
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-pay
-tell her she looks nice

DO:
-ask her if she presses charges
-put things in her drink
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If you've already hooked up with her in a bar, there's no need for classiness or formality. Just go out and have fun and be yourself. If she doesn't dig you when she's not wasted and barhopping, it's not worth continuing and wasting money on.
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where are you going? is she a friend of a friend? i never liked the idea of shoveling food into my mouth on a first date...maybe its cliche to take a girl to a restaurant but i dont recommend it...

i think it depends on how well you know her...how many times have you spoke?? at what capacity have you interacted?? did you meet online?! i used to assassinate women and loved dating...i found the best response with first "dates" to meet at bar, club, lounge in your area...she will bring her girl(s) and you will have your friend(s)...no pressure...very comfortable...keep conversation light but dont pepper with questions...dont make it seem like you are giving an interview....when there is that awkward silence try to hit her with some opened ended comment that will illicit a response...that response will segway into a new conversation....

how old are you? are you picking her up? at her apartment or her parents house? there are alot of factors brother....are you really into this chick or are you just trying to ball?! if you are really evaluating her for a relationship wifey type id play it a little different then if you are just trying to fuck...

dont try to hard...dont hit with corny comments about her appearance/eyes/clothes...
def include alcohol...but dont overdue it like ur with your boys or ull say something dumb, like your favorite movie is "indian bones and the temple of poon"

if it does work out and you end up back at your place at 2am, and you have been a gentlemen all night, go for the kill....dont try to touch her tits man, just go right for the pussy...dont wash ur hands and let me smell your fingers haha

enjoy homie!
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DO:
-open doors
-pay
-tell her she looks nice

DON'T:
-ask her if she presses charges
-put things in her drink
haha. OP, how old are you?
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haha. OP, how old are you?
21, why?

Thx for the advices so far .
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21, why?

Thx for the advices so far .
because a date for a 21 yr old is different then a date for a 31 yr old...
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because a date for a 21 yr old is different then a date for a 31 yr old...
yeah... true that. But I would think of myself pretty mature for my age... I think the advices apply so far...
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It helps if you have a mutual friend or a specific event that you two shared to laugh about.

I find that also asking questions about her life (school, what she wants to be in 5 years, etc) will keep the conversation flowing.

Keep your cell on SILENT! Do not check it- let it stay in your pocket.

Walk and greet her at the door when you pick her up. Dude your 21, I don't think you have to open the car door for her.


Oh, sharing an app that SHE picks is always a plus.

I never show my dates the bill. I just take my card out and quickly stuff it into the check binder.

I'll add more as I think of them.
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because a date for a 21 yr old is different then a date for a 31 yr old...
exactly. definitely don't get a corsage!
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Take care of her (what would you like to eat/drink?)
You talk, she talks. If she isn't too sociable, ask her easy questions about work/school, family, hobbies, etc. Basically keep the conversation going
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