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      04-15-2011, 03:08 AM   #111
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time seems to be the problem, though. i'm not trying to bust on you, but the longer you sit around and sulk, the longer you're going to be in the way of yourself. you're young, dude. at 20, i was able to write a girl off like a tax deduction. i know you guys have been together for years, etc., but it's not the end of the world. besides, you've got the best years of your life coming up in the next 5-10 years. you're not even 21 yet. just wait until you start going out, meeting people, meeting hot new pussy. you're still in that whole need for attachment thing because you recently got out of a long relationship, but this, too, shall pass. if you run around beating yourself over the head about either mending things with girl or saying that you NEED a girlfriend (which by saying that you respect women, you'll find the right one soon blah blah kinda sounds like you are), you're just going to carry over the victim role into another relationship.
I know. It's still so fresh
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girlfriend = most expensive form of sex there is
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      04-15-2011, 03:13 AM   #114
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you can either pay for guaranteed ass or get in a new relationship, be a good little bitch and compromise thru the nose and maybe she will throw you some lovin every now and then.
Just take him across the border to the red light district if he wants to save a few bucks on pussy
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i NEVER EVER in my life thought i would say this but this black dude is so fucking right.
he speaks truth.
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      04-15-2011, 03:15 AM   #116
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I know. It's still so fresh
if anything, consider it a blessing. she just gave you the best upcoming birthday present possible...you're single in your 21st year. assuming you don't look like *******, you'll be pulling pussy like a commercial fisherman and having the time of your life doing it.
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      04-15-2011, 05:08 AM   #117
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      04-15-2011, 05:37 AM   #118
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Your coming up 21, and your spending your time telling us about a break up. Im the same age, but I'd be out, smashing the back doors in of every girl that's over a 4/10. Reality is harsh man, but when she realises your out porking every chick you meet, thats when it'll hit home. The advice on here is the best you'll get....
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      04-15-2011, 06:35 AM   #119
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Congratulations. You just had your first real life experience. You had a girlfriend, you broke up. I half believe you expected to come here and find some answer that would relieve you of all of your sadness.

Wait till you date someone and consider getting married and have that shit fall apart on you. You're 20. If you don't want to go out and fuck randoms, that's fine. But it only gets easier when you move on. Like Blake said earlier, the longer you sulk, the longer you will be in your own way.

Jay may seem like a dick about all this, but he is telling you what you need to hear. Not what you want to hear. Some of your comments though show a pretty questionable sense of self.

You are looking for a girl to be your friend at 20? For what? Paint each others nails? Go shopping together?
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      04-15-2011, 07:20 AM   #120
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OP, I understand your situation
but you are going to tell me that in those 3years of being with her, you never looked at some hot chick walking down the street and you're like "man.. I wish I could bang her brains out? but aw crap, I have a gf"
Well now YOU CAN!
Call up all those chicks you put off because of your gf and work the groove
ride that lightning for a while and you won't have time to sulk and be depressed and after 2-3 girls you'll be like "what was so special about her again?"

Stick to your M3, pick up some daft gold diggers, party it up like a pimp, have a threesome, and just be awesome!
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I agree man. I've been told these are the golden years where you can do what you want and not need any excuse.

At this age, you can have as many, or as little, relationships as you want. You'll soon realise that if that chick doesn't want you, there will be many who will.

So rock out with your cock out and just enjoy the age were at. There's plenty of time to get serious when your older.
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      04-15-2011, 09:29 AM   #122
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we all die lonely
Except you die with 72 virgins


OP I didn't read the 4 pages of BS since I last posted, I did see you post you want a "friend" and respect women, and that new guy doesn't have a car.

1. At 20 years old you won't get far respecting women, they want an asshole.
2. He did something you weren't currently giving her, he gave her his attention. At 21 girls don't care about your car, they don't care about anything but looks, swag, and how well you can keep there attention.

You sound very inexperienced with girls, and don't have the confidence to go out and slay multiple girls. Personality excuse is just an excuse
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      04-15-2011, 09:32 AM   #123
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2 options,

a. Go to the bars with friends and get F'd up.
b. Go to the bars with friends, have some drinks and see if you can get some strange.
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      04-15-2011, 09:34 AM   #124
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20 years old with ZCP M3 2011? Amazing. I'll read the story now.
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      04-15-2011, 09:37 AM   #125
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You live in SD.

Drive to Vegas. Bang bitches.

Or go to gaslamp. Bang bitches.

Or go to PB. Bang bitches.

Or got to TJ. Bang donkey.

It doesn't matter, just move on.
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      04-15-2011, 09:41 AM   #126
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I read this and feel really bad for you.. my friend went through something similar, was really good friends with the girl he ended up dating. After the breakup, they were never the same.


Three things I advise: never date a good friend's ex, never date a good friend, and never date a friend you work with. Friend being the common factor. Because once you break up, there is no way you are ever going back to being friends again. With your buddies, or with the girl.

Go blast some techno and drive your M. Immerse yourself in your close friends. I am not gonna sit here and tell you to man up and stop being a bitch because its a lot easier for someone to tell you those things than for you to actually do them.

I went through a terrible breakup in 2008 with my gf of 3 and a half years, although we were not good friends before we dated.. which probably makes your situation worse. Good luck with everything, and remember those who were there before your gf was. Look to the things that make you happy to get you through this.
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OP, listen to everything said in this thread. It is all true. Even what jay said. To add on to it, you will never be friends with this girl. They all say that and sometimes you believe it, but it won't happen. Best thing to do is forget she even exists. Completely erase her from your life (cell number, facebook, etc etc). If she tries to contact you, just delete the text or don't pick up the phone. You will get over her faster, and you will be a much happier person.

You don't like to go out and fuck random girls or hangout at bars, that is fine. Just don't wallow in your own shit thinking about this girl. At least do something to keep you busy. Find a new hobby or take up a sport. When you are ready, you will meet someone. Simple as that. But don't be a little bitch and turn down a blowjob if the opportunity arises.
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I can't believe ferrari and I actually agree on something.
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bitch, don't think you can get all touchy feely now.
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Maybe you should quit working for the family business that pays you well enough to own a M3 and then when you don't have a job, you can sell the M and pick up a Camry or a Civic.
That will solve all your problems and make life so much more interesting.
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      04-15-2011, 10:56 AM   #132
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