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      12-16-2012, 07:26 PM   #111
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Hey don't get me wrong. I am turned on by smarts....but i can't see smarts from across the bar so she better be good looking!
Because let's face it if you could see her brains from the other side of the bar odds are she may be dead? or suffering from some massive trauma!
Me? Well for me I know what turns me on, educated and athletic.
I'm looking for a life partner and an equal.
And that's what confused me about my friend. She wasn't marry some one she saw an an equal but someone she saw as less than her.
And well now i can see why she did it. To ensure security and to maintain control
Have you tried the morgue ?
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      12-16-2012, 07:55 PM   #112
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      12-16-2012, 08:01 PM   #113
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So do you always talk like a douche bag in a cheesy porno?
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      12-16-2012, 10:03 PM   #114
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The way I see it, it's a victory for all the "nice" guys out there. Relationships are about caring/loving the other party and most importantly, being patient. He invested time and effort in this girl and in return he got his reward. You treated her as just some kind of a fling and she did the same to you. As everyone has said, you are just jealous and can't deal with the fact that she's not yours.

Also, you have no right to call her "tool food" or "sloppy seconds". Society has regarded girls who fuck around as sluts or damaged goods. Whereas, guys who do the same are manly and cool. This double standard is one of the most ridiculous societal norms that we have but you have every right to think this way because society has told you so. However, take a step back and look at the big picture. In a world where we talk about equality for all, regardless of race or sex, what makes men so much more superior to women such that men can screw around and its ok, but when girls do it, its not? Think about it...

Reading about the way you try and convince your friend that her fiance isn't the right type is really disgusting. Why can't you just be happy for others? And things aren't what they always seem on the surface. You may think you know her well, but people change and as time moves on, people mature and realize that stable and faithful relationship/marriage is more important than just simple, fun one night stands. Clearly, your mentality is still wrapped around having fun and getting laid. That thinking is perfectly fine. But all I ask is for you to have an open mind; to be able to think about things from other perspectives and not blindly impose your one-sided opinions on others.

Also, I don't see where god fit into this whole picture and your misogynistic, sexist one-sided opinions are not always right. In fact, I would say that they are very close-minded, immature and disgusting. Of course, you are entitled to your own opinions and so do I.

I know many guys on this forum do not share the same sentiment as I do regarding how to deal with the opposite gender, but that's what these places are for. So enjoy!
Believe it or not i agree 100% with what you are saying...but.

She did tell me point blank..."he is not my type"
And you know that really offended me...why is she marrying a guy who is not her type?
I just find it...offensive? Since i hold marriage as sacred...kind of old school right?
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      12-16-2012, 11:39 PM   #115
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Since i hold marriage as sacred...kind of old school right?
no you don't.......

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      12-16-2012, 11:47 PM   #116
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i did but that was long ago.....
but you hope that some still do.
"yeah he's not my type but i'm marrying him..."

ah well it's their life not mine
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      12-17-2012, 12:44 PM   #117
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Shah, you should just go back to ******* misc they'd probably worship your ideologies. Of course that is because many on there are douche bags like yourself.
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      12-17-2012, 01:24 PM   #118
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As much as it pains me to be a Shah apologist..

Shah doesn't understand why the girl is willing to settle with someone who is not her ideal type, thus proceeds to call her a slut etc.

Anti-Shah's (good grief) are offended by his calling her out on her lack of morals.
The truth is in between.
A short story.
Back in ancient China, during the Three Kingdoms Period (yes, many computers games made of it), Liu Bei was the 'good' (/moral) guy and Cao Cao was the bad guy, but why did Cao Cao win in the end? My take is because Liu Bei TOOK TOO DAMN LONG, literally, he ran out of time to unite the country using his 'moral' methods. The ruthless but pratical Cao Cao prevailed because his time table fitted that of heaven's, meaning the country needed to be united more than it needed to be moral.

So can the same be same with marriage?
I profess I am/was like Liu Bei, always wanting to do the moral or 'right' thing, but as you can see I am getting old and still single, depriving a very fortunately (or unfortunate) woman of the chance to marry and have a family.

So we can't have too high standards, always insisting to do it the 'right' way.. because God and the woman won't wait.

So thanks to Shah and Litos for highlighting both side of this very interesting debate, at least I have found answers here.
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      12-18-2012, 01:48 AM   #119
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      12-18-2012, 02:01 AM   #120
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Liu Bei was the 'good' (/moral) guy and Cao Cao was the bad guy, but why did Cao Cao win in the end?
cao cao didn't win (though he was in first place on his deathbed). after a string of shitty cao successors, the sima clan eventually usurped the wei throne and established the short-lived jin dynasty.

but i agree, cao cao was a badass... and if he had 20 more years he would have probably won. liu bei was doomed to fail: couldn't pull the trigger on many key decisions and his sworn bros held him back. and, liu bei did have a shot: after his major surge he got greedy and at the same time was unable to control his greedy bros. it was all downhill after guan yu's fall.

i'll even add that zhuge liang was the smartest, but too much of a playboy (which was conveniently swept under the rug as 3 kingdoms was written in the ming dynasty, ruled by the zhu clan). zhuge liang died with almost 100 recognized grandchildren!

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      12-18-2012, 11:05 AM   #121
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cao cao didn't win (though he was in first place on his deathbed). after a string of shitty cao successors, the sima clan eventually usurped the wei throne and established the short-lived jin dynasty.

but i agree, cao cao was a badass... and if he had 20 more years he would have probably won. liu bei was doomed to fail: couldn't pull the trigger on many key decisions and his sworn bros held him back. and, liu bei did have a shot: after his major surge he got greedy and at the same time was unable to control his greedy bros. it was all downhill after guan yu's fall.

i'll even add that zhuge liang was the smartest, but too much of a playboy (which was conveniently swept under the rug as 3 kingdoms was written in the ming dynasty, ruled by the zhu clan). zhuge liang died with almost 100 recognized grandchildren!
Cao Cao didn't win outright but he was ahead of Liu Bei.
I just watched the TV series so that's all I know.
It portrayed Zhuge liang as not suceeding because he was too careful, didn't make use of the element of surprise, and no one could live long enough to carry out his plans as he envisioned it.
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      12-18-2012, 05:04 PM   #122
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damn, poor Buster Posey HAHA !!!!

he IS the Giants - if they're smart, they'll keep him for the next 15 years.

here's to good knees - love that kid and wish him nothing but good health....
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      12-18-2012, 06:02 PM   #123
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Well i don't know....I just hope all of you the best of health and that you never settle and you work hard to have not only the best thins in your life but also the best people and in the end the best partner/lover who you will love and respect as much as she loves and respects you.


*this in some odd way will offend a few fan boys and will use some passive aggressive posts to artificially increase their testicular mass.
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