Pros and Cons of being in a relationship

FwdFtl · 12-06-2012, 12:45 PM

The Holiday seasons usually remind single people of their loneliness and couples of their great or horrible relationships.

I want to ask my fellow OT'ers to list either ONE pro OR ONE con of being in a relationship.

For clarification, heterosexual relationships (no offense to others...)

I'll say a pro is constant sex w/o too much doubt that she may have contracted a STD in between last time you had sexy time.

passing · 12-06-2012, 12:55 PM

thank you for reminding me of my loneliness.

FwdFtl · 12-06-2012, 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by passing

thank you for reminding me of my loneliness.

and extra money right?

passing · 12-06-2012, 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by FwdFtl

and extra money right?

way to put a smile on my face

Rowdy · 12-06-2012, 01:10 PM

Con: having to always watch what you're saying! ie; 'Daaaaaammmmnnnnnn look at that sluts assssssss' is not acceptable

PSUSMU · 12-06-2012, 01:16 PM

Relationship:
+consistent sex
+someone to do stuff with
-monotony
-less $
-tied to 1 vag

Single:
+no ties
+more $
+multiple vags
-no consistent sex
-forever alone

3_runner · 12-06-2012, 01:20 PM

Pro: sex... That's about it.

Oh and um... together... ness. Or something like that.

FwdFtl · 12-06-2012, 01:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by passing

way to put a smile on my face

1 smile a day. that's all I live for...

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Originally Posted by PSUSMU

Relationship:
+consistent sex
+someone to do stuff with
-monotony
-less $
-tied to 1 vag

Single:
+no ties
+more $
+multiple vags
-no consistent sex
-forever alone

or - "why are my testicles itching...?"

amanda hor$t · 12-06-2012, 01:48 PM

anyone here have 2+ gf's (or know of someone)?

the closest i've personally known was a guy who had a gf and a booty call (they didn't know each other but accepted it)

Masterplan · 12-06-2012, 03:36 PM

Interesting thread OP. Had this thought on my mind myself this last while about what I want.

Wraith. · 12-06-2012, 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Masterplan

Interesting thread OP. Had this thought on my mind myself this last while about what I want.

Huh?

FwdFtl · 12-06-2012, 04:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Masterplan

Interesting thread OP. Had this thought on my mind myself this last while about what I want.

So let's hear it man. wuddya think?

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wraith.

Huh?

Right? It's like a trick sentence.

Masterplan · 12-06-2012, 05:18 PM

I'm just interested in hearing what others see as pros or cons. Cause there's no doubt that some pros to me, will be cons to others. I'm just weighing up if the pros currently outweigh the cons!

Jebus335 · 12-06-2012, 05:32 PM

Between 16-40 single may have more pros vs cons, past 40 forever aloe

Litos · 12-06-2012, 09:44 PM

relationships are awesome.

marriage is awesome.

i'm mexican so i'm always just sitting around the house while my wife cooks, cleans or does random shit around the house in her panties...

two kids are beautiful.....

job is fan-freaking-tastic...

we're going to the "North Pole" on Sunday with the kids. gonna drive @ 2.5 hours to a town called Palestine Texas, which is where the Texas RailRoad place is....

gonna get on a train, get some hot coco, cookies, sing songs and roll to the North Pole

i'd rather be in this marriage spending all my hard earned money on my wife, kids and toys than to be single, rich and not have this life....

ToothDoc · 12-07-2012, 12:27 AM

I save a LOT of time not having to think/chase/dream about somebody. I just go to work, eat, sleep, get laid and BJd, and pursue my hobbies and play with my kids.

I'd rather NOT be young and single. I don't even miss it ONE bit.

Maybe I'm just the marrying type...

Litos · 12-07-2012, 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by ToothDoc

I save a LOT of time not having to think/chase/dream about somebody. I just go to work, eat, sleep, get laid and BJd, and pursue my hobbies and play with my kids.

I'd rather NOT be young and single. I don't even miss it ONE bit.

Maybe I'm just the marrying type...

this guy gets it....

Litos · 12-07-2012, 09:31 AM

here are my two kids and their Challengers.

yes, those are in fact "His and Hers Challengers"

Foodle · 12-07-2012, 10:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Litos

i'd rather be in this marriage spending all my hard earned money on my wife, kids and toys than to be single, rich and not have this life....

Quote:

Originally Posted by ToothDoc

I'd rather NOT be young and single. I don't even miss it ONE bit.

Elliott@DetailAddict · 12-07-2012, 01:22 PM

PRO: Im single again!
Con: I have too much spare money in my wallet making my back hurt.

In all honestly though, both lifestyles have positives and negatives, which will be different for everyone.
I miss it alot sometimes but hey I made the decision for various reasons.
How will you meet the right person if you're committed to the wrong person?
That was the con in my personal situation recently... it just wasn't right.
I don't want to stay single, just trying to enjoy it for the time being.

Litos · 12-07-2012, 02:20 PM

^^^^^^ if you're spending "that much" money on a dumb broad that isn't even committed to you, then you're the freaking idiot.

i dish out a lot of money for my wife and kids, but i ain't going poor doing it - i have to support them.

if all that "extra money" is now available after being used by some skank, then you may have to re-evaluate why you're on this earth....

upstatedoc · 12-07-2012, 02:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Litos

here are my two kids and their Challengers.

yes, those are in fact "His and Hers Challengers"

Hey! The little litos!

Here's my crew, no meme's please:

12-06-2012, 12:45 PM	#1
FwdFtl Volcano Knuckles Drives: E60 Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Cali Posts: 229 iTrader: (0)	Pros and Cons of being in a relationship The Holiday seasons usually remind single people of their loneliness and couples of their great or horrible relationships. I want to ask my fellow OT'ers to list either ONE pro OR ONE con of being in a relationship. For clarification, heterosexual relationships (no offense to others...) I'll say a pro is constant sex w/o too much doubt that she may have contracted a STD in between last time you had sexy time.
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12-06-2012, 09:44 PM	#15
Litos Colonel Drives: 07 335i Sedan Sport Package Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Houston/Pearland Posts: 2,748 iTrader: (1)	relationships are awesome. marriage is awesome. i'm mexican so i'm always just sitting around the house while my wife cooks, cleans or does random shit around the house in her panties... two kids are beautiful..... job is fan-freaking-tastic... we're going to the "North Pole" on Sunday with the kids. gonna drive @ 2.5 hours to a town called Palestine Texas, which is where the Texas RailRoad place is.... gonna get on a train, get some hot coco, cookies, sing songs and roll to the North Pole i'd rather be in this marriage spending all my hard earned money on my wife, kids and toys than to be single, rich and not have this life.... __________________
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12-07-2012, 09:31 AM	#18
Litos Colonel Drives: 07 335i Sedan Sport Package Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Houston/Pearland Posts: 2,748 iTrader: (1)	here are my two kids and their Challengers. yes, those are in fact "His and Hers Challengers" __________________
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12-07-2012, 01:22 PM	#20
Elliott@DetailAddict BimmerPost Supporting Vendor Drives: E90 Join Date: May 2011 Location: Santa Clara, CA Posts: 4,416 iTrader: (0)	PRO: Im single again! Con: I have too much spare money in my wallet making my back hurt. In all honestly though, both lifestyles have positives and negatives, which will be different for everyone. I miss it alot sometimes but hey I made the decision for various reasons. How will you meet the right person if you're committed to the wrong person? That was the con in my personal situation recently... it just wasn't right. I don't want to stay single, just trying to enjoy it for the time being. __________________ Detail Addict Facebook \| Detail Addict Products \| Detail Addict Services \| Detail Addict Portfolios T: (408) 988-2400 \| Email: elliott@detailaddict.com
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12-07-2012, 02:20 PM	#21
Litos Colonel Drives: 07 335i Sedan Sport Package Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Houston/Pearland Posts: 2,748 iTrader: (1)	^^^^^^ if you're spending "that much" money on a dumb broad that isn't even committed to you, then you're the freaking idiot. i dish out a lot of money for my wife and kids, but i ain't going poor doing it - i have to support them. if all that "extra money" is now available after being used by some skank, then you may have to re-evaluate why you're on this earth.... __________________
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12-06-2012, 12:55 PM	#2
passing hey Drives: caprice wagon Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: cruisin down the street in my '64 Posts: 395 iTrader: (4)	thank you for reminding me of my loneliness.
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12-06-2012, 01:10 PM	#5
Rowdy Second Lieutenant Drives: 2012 135i Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Hongcouver Canada Posts: 214 iTrader: (1)	Con: having to always watch what you're saying! ie; 'Daaaaaammmmnnnnnn look at that sluts assssssss' is not acceptable
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12-06-2012, 01:16 PM	#6
PSUSMU Captain Drives: Entry-level Luxury Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Falls Church, VA Posts: 698 iTrader: (1)	Relationship: +consistent sex +someone to do stuff with -monotony -less $ -tied to 1 vag Single: +no ties +more $ +multiple vags -no consistent sex -forever alone
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12-06-2012, 01:20 PM	#7
3_runner Second Lieutenant Drives: 328xi Join Date: May 2011 Location: Cape Cod Posts: 197 iTrader: (1)	Pro: sex... That's about it. Oh and um... together... ness. Or something like that.
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12-06-2012, 01:48 PM	#9
amanda hor$t Banned Drives: a380 Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: ny ny Posts: 208 iTrader: (0)	anyone here have 2+ gf's (or know of someone)? the closest i've personally known was a guy who had a gf and a booty call (they didn't know each other but accepted it)
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12-06-2012, 03:36 PM	#10
Masterplan Lieutenant Drives: F30 EBII 330D Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Edinburgh, Scotland Posts: 422 iTrader: (0)	Interesting thread OP. Had this thought on my mind myself this last while about what I want.
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12-06-2012, 05:18 PM	#13
Masterplan Lieutenant Drives: F30 EBII 330D Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Edinburgh, Scotland Posts: 422 iTrader: (0)	I'm just interested in hearing what others see as pros or cons. Cause there's no doubt that some pros to me, will be cons to others. I'm just weighing up if the pros currently outweigh the cons!
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12-06-2012, 05:32 PM	#14
Jebus335 Private First Class Drives: 07 335i Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Ca Posts: 149 iTrader: (3)	Between 16-40 single may have more pros vs cons, past 40 forever aloe
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12-07-2012, 12:27 AM	#16
ToothDoc Second Lieutenant Drives: 997.2 TTS, IS-F, X5M Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Chicagoland Posts: 217 iTrader: (0)	I save a LOT of time not having to think/chase/dream about somebody. I just go to work, eat, sleep, get laid and BJd, and pursue my hobbies and play with my kids. I'd rather NOT be young and single. I don't even miss it ONE bit. Maybe I'm just the marrying type...
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