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Ignore the problem. She's just a fling. Continue to enjoy her company. 5 5.56%
Do a line with her! 9 10.00%
Dump her. This is bad. Just walk away. Not your problem. 26 28.89%
Help her get help. She may not be your girlfriend, but you should help her avoid a dark path. 39 43.33%
Escalate the issue. Start taking more drugs with her and enjoy crazy sex with the bitch. 11 12.22%
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      05-17-2013, 10:07 AM   #23
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1st.......shes your F buddy so who cares.
2.......painkillers usual's help girls get entered in their rear ends.....so cop some lube and have at it.
3....as my man tom said.....your really that big of a loser that you need to ask people on the internet what to do?
4. you must either be a horrible lay or just really boring to be around if she is blowing them PKs to get ready to hang out with you
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For the record, I draw the line at alcohol.
Not sure I understand this part: are you saying coming home to a pill snorting junkie is ok, but if you had come home and discovered her drinking a bottle of wine, it would have been game over?
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      05-17-2013, 11:29 AM   #25
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Not sure I understand this part: are you saying coming home to a pill snorting junkie is ok, but if you had come home and discovered her drinking a bottle of wine, it would have been game over?
I think he means that alcohol is the max as far as drugs go.
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      05-17-2013, 11:33 AM   #26
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weed is not a drug
By definition it is... as is cigarettes, alcohol, aspirin, etc.
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      05-17-2013, 11:59 AM   #27
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She obviously likes to party. Put it in her pooper and call it a day. Tell her that can be her new drug
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1st.......shes your F buddy so who cares.
2.......painkillers usual's help girls get entered in their rear ends.....so cop some lube and have at it.
3....as my man tom said.....your really that big of a loser that you need to ask people on the internet what to do?
4. you must either be a horrible lay or just really boring to be around if she is blowing them PKs to get ready to hang out with you
What these guys said!
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      05-17-2013, 12:29 PM   #28
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Ignore these jerks breaking your balls about asking for advice online. It's always wrong until something affects them and they don't know what to do.

What you need to do is sever ties and let her bottom out without taking you with her. Snorting pills is a whole other ballgame than popping some Vicodin. As I understand it, Percocets are up there with Oxycontin and are viewed as a higher level drug than your run of the mill prescription pain killer. She's an addict and you just found the tip of the iceberg.

A great question would be how is she getting Percocets? Doctors generally don't hand out high level pain killers and most doctors in most states utilize the DEA database to monitor how controlled substances are distributed in order to prevent abuse. If she is obtaining them illegally, run the other way as fast as you can. If you are caught with her while she has them you'll get dragged into any legal action with her if she's using without a prescription.

Like other posters in this thread, I've seen prescription drug abuse severely limit people if not outright bring them down. I myself had a problem with Vicodin years ago. I recognized what was in front of me and decided to make a change and I haven't looked back. One thing that is crucial in all of this, she won't stop unless she wants to stop. Addicts always find a way to keep using.

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      05-17-2013, 12:52 PM   #29
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Once an addict always an addict.

The reason why other people can take drugs and not become addicted is because they exhibit self control.

Cut the waste of life loose or just use her for sex as you already are.

Btw being addicted to script drugs like perks, vikes, etc is like in the same category as heroin as far as its addictive nature and abuse, not to mention shes sniffing not ingesting.
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It's essentially synthetic heroin.
This.

Opioids are synthetically created opium. There are studies that show kicking actual heroin is less difficult than kicking prescription pain killers.

Search Fentanyl if you want to see the strongest prescriptions pain killer that can be issued outside of a hospital setting. Pretty unsettling when you start to look into what it's done to people who started using it after routing hip/knee replacement surgeries and couldn't get off it.
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      05-17-2013, 03:50 PM   #32
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That sucks man. I hate to say it but u need go realize the relationship is over because since your a good guy your going to try to get her help but she will resent you for it. If I were in your spot just get her the help but know it will severe ties between you.
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I think he means that alcohol is the max as far as drugs go.
I dunno. He seemed to insinuate that he was OK as long as she was a casual user since he knows so many people that do hard drugs and are normal functioning people.

If it was me, I'd just find a new fuck buddy. Not worth the hassle or headache to deal with that shit, especially if she isn't even more than a slam piece for you. I'd actually cut it off in every single situation except for a wife, who I feel like I'd at least owe the chance to help turn things around.
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She obviously likes to party. Put it in her pooper and call it a day. Tell her that can be her new drug
Those girls when they get attached , they wont let you go that easy...they'll key your car, stalk you etc.

They lie, steal, love drama...op run for the hills,man.
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Pass me her contact info. I have a "professional services" business which can make good money out of a girl like this. She could earn me $200-300 an hour. I'd be happy to give you a cut.
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Have her checked... girls like that will do whatever to get their fix.
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Those girls when they get attached , they wont let you go that easy...they'll key your car, stalk you etc.

They lie, steal, love drama...op run for the hills,man.
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Two...maybe three things...

1. Straight up leave this girl alone, you do NOT want to be associated with her and result in ruining your life.

2. Get her help with said condition if its possible if she wants to cooperate.

3. In the event you two are having more than just "friendly chats" and there is some sort of feelings connected, stop all that and save yourself.

Either way, if it were me and I saw a "mutual friend" snorting fucking anything I am rolling out and removing that number from my phone and if there is any evidence of me being in the house I would quickly take that shit with me and erase myself from the situation ASAP. One works to hard in this shitty environment that we are in to be caught in some fucking drug heads bullshit. Remove yourself and enjoy the rest of your life with many other "mutual friends."

No nothing like this has happened to me before for all you internet thread forum instigator types...
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Those girls when they get attached , they wont let you go that easy...they'll key your car, stalk you etc.

They lie, steal, love drama...op run for the hills,man.
Why get with a woman like that then. If he runs for the hills you don't think she'll key his car and shit?
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Man you guys are so uptight. Its not like he discovered she has a secret ostritch fetish or likes to funnel eels into her butt.
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Man you guys are so uptight. Its not like he discovered she has a secret ostritch fetish or likes to funnel eels into her butt.
Lol those were overly specific examples
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3rd page and still no pics? OP, just talk to her and let us know.
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If you don't care enough to do what you know is the right thing without asking, then cut her loose. Addiction is painful for everyone involved and isn't worth the hassle if you don't really care about the person. It's not your job to solve the worlds problems.

Since we're on a car forum - think of her as a car with a salvage title. It might turn out ok but is the downside really worth the risk?
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