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      10-18-2013, 11:03 PM   #67
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No disagreement here.. the only thing chinese i will use are the women
Ok, relax there, big boss.
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      10-18-2013, 11:50 PM   #68
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China fuckin sucks at everything IMHO.
Ha. I bet your opinions ain't worth shit in the real world.
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      10-19-2013, 12:02 AM   #69
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Are you white?

White guys who have some sort of facsination with Asians creep me the fuck out.
THIS. I don't know what it is, but whenever I see some white dude with an Asian chick just screams creepy to me.
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Are you white?

White guys who have some sort of facsination with Asians creep me the fuck out.
THIS. I don't know what it is, but whenever I see some white dude with an Asian chick just screams creepy to me.
They think of them as "fuck dolls".... It's like a bizzare fantasy for them.... Or they might be sick of loose ponnani...
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Ha. I bet your opinions ain't worth shit in the real world.
I bet you have a shitty sense of humor and can't pick up on Internet sarcasm.

I win.
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      10-19-2013, 02:48 PM   #72
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which is why I dig the chicks - though can't say I have tried anything else..

does she give good Thai massages? or make you pad thai
Best Thai massage I have ever had And free
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THIS. I don't know what it is, but whenever I see some white dude with an Asian chick just screams creepy to me.
While I don't think it's creepy when I see a white guy and Asian woman couple, but I too don't get the whole Asian fascination....
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While I don't think it's creepy when I see a white guy and Asian woman couple, but I too don't get the whole Asian fascination....
You: rip off clothes, jump into bed

Asian woman: folds said clothes, tidies up room, hops in the shower, drys off with towel (wrapped around her). Lights off while she exits bathroom and slips under the covers
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Maybe it wasn't really the mother that was bugging her? Maybe she really loved you and wanted to get marry with you and used her mother as a scapegoat? That is how I see it like and I'm Asian and chinese in particular.

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No disagreement here.. the only thing chinese i will use are the women

I thought you were chinese?
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      10-19-2013, 11:40 PM   #76
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Ha. I bet your opinions ain't worth shit in the real world.
I bet you have a shitty sense of humor and can't pick up on Internet sarcasm.

I win.
Lol

I guess he's Chinese
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      10-20-2013, 05:55 AM   #77
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I thought you were chinese?
I am..

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Lol

I guess he's Chinese
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What is it with white guys and Asian girls? Subaru and Samsung have had commercials with the Asian girl/white guy/family. It's like the new American Dream. Keeping up with the Jones' with your white picket fence and the Asian wife.
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Any time I see a white guy with an Asian lady, I assume she came in a big wooden box to his front door and doesn't speak a lick of English.

Also, I think the infatuation for white guys mostly comes from the mainstream Hentai stuff. They get to watching this Sailing Moons or whatever and probably imagine that's how Asian women are in real life?

Maybe they feel they behold secret powers that white women don't have. Like in bed ninja skills maybe....,
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Maybe it wasn't really the mother that was bugging her? Maybe she really loved you and wanted to get marry with you and used her mother as a scapegoat? That is how I see it like and I'm Asian and chinese in particular.




I thought you were chinese?
That was not the case. It was totally her mother
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That was not the case. It was totally her mother
After your divorce drama you don't need to deal with this. If you are really getting the doctor, the lawyer, the thai girl, and are that good at getting laid... you should focus on enjoying it, you have your own kids, your $4k a month forever (or unless she gets married, keep your fingers crossed).

As far for the dude bashing you for being 42 and sharing your relationship problems, don't mind him/her. Sometimes advice from random strangers can help put things in perspective, just remember that not every anonymous internet forum poster has your best interest at heart.

Good luck.

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tough situation but sounds typical asian... huge power distances and it's all about respect. though the daughter (your gf) should push back a little (i.e. "when you permit, you promote").

i would say i have become very american through the years, and my parents (and their relatives/friends) still try to pull that old asian b.s. from time to time. it's a mental game: talking down at you like you're a child/bum/crazy, guilt trips, covert aggression... i'm on top of it though. the working mantra is: whatever, they're old (mental image of abe simpson).

it's probably not your place to tell her to push back, but that's what i would say.

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White guys with Chinese women dont bother me. But white guys with korean women...WTF
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After your divorce drama you don't need to deal with this. If you are really getting the doctor, the lawyer, the thai girl, and are that good at getting laid... you should focus on enjoying it, you have your own kids, your $4k a month forever (or unless she gets married, keep your fingers crossed).

As far for the dude bashing you for being 42 and sharing your relationship problems, don't mind him/her. Sometimes advice from random strangers can help put things in perspective, just remember that not every anonymous internet forum poster has your best interest at heart.

Good luck.

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tough situation but sounds typical asian... huge power distances and it's all about respect. though the daughter (your gf) should push back a little (i.e. "when you permit, you promote").

i would say i have become very american through the years, and my parents (and their relatives/friends) still try to pull that old asian b.s. from time to time. it's a mental game: talking down at you like you're a child/bum/crazy, guilt trips, covert aggression... i'm on top of it though. the working mantra is: whatever, they're old (mental image of abe simpson).

it's probably not your place to tell her to push back, but that's what i would say.
I told her to push back and she tried...But it didn't work. Her mother is a total nut case and kept making her life miserable which in return prevented us to be happy So the best thing to do was to walk away...which I did...

It is a shame that such a wonderful relation involving 5 people (me, my gf, her 2 kids and my daughter) was ruined because of a sick person...

I hope everyone who read this thread and in my situation (dating a Chinese who lives with her parents) would learn from my experience and others' inputs and either avoid it or set the rules in advance...
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I feel like Asian women fulfill that sort of youth/innocence fantasy, and perhaps a bit of a desire for a more subservient woman as well.
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I feel like Asian women fulfill that sort of youth/innocence fantasy, and perhaps a bit of a desire for a more subservient woman as well.
Except for the ones who are bat sh!t crazy.
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I feel like Asian women fulfill that sort of youth/innocence fantasy, and perhaps a bit of a desire for a more subservient woman as well.
Except for the ones who are bat sh!t crazy.
The fantasy is the reason, the craziness is the undesirable side-effect...
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