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      09-11-2018, 09:54 AM   #294
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How's he being the "better man" by cowardly hiding in a hole (ghosting)?

I need to learn what these millennials call being a "bigger person" these days, I'm getting old...
I think he's saying i'd be the better man if I wasn't the one she cheats on her bf with.

If you have any input to what I should text please let me know, because I really do not. I also don't see any reason to provide a reason why she'll never hear from me again
Well man it's hard not to sound condescending, but if you've been chatting with someone, going out on dates numerous times, getting intimate, simply disappearing is not ok in my books. Why leave her wondering? It seems she was enjoying conversing with you.

If you no longer wish to date her, just tell her. It doesn't take long and certainly doesn't disrupt your studies...

Just tell her how you feel? Was it because she has a boyfriend? You already have the perfect reason and she'll understand.

I just think that the bigger people let their voice be heard and stand up for what they think, and the little ones hide in a hole until whatever they're scared of is gone... ghosting is the latter.

It's a different story when you "match" someone online and say hi, they say hi back, you ask them a question and you never hear back. You guys already have something going on.

I could go on in how I even feel like texting wouldn't be enough for you to convey the message that you're "breaking up", and that you should do it in person... but I'm not even going to go that far as I know that is a lost cause.

Cheers and good luck with your M4....
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