well you should have listened to all in the previous thread and get rid of him
hope you talked to him after this : "Please respect our decision, we are married and we made this choice together. I am sure you all will have a great time
I can be your bestman but I am also a husband. If your idea of a bestman is different I apologize I am not fitting the mold. "
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