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+1 on MaxL's comments.
The untimely death of these young adults is tragic for all...
All the parents may be partly to blame, but keep in mind...when was the last time you said "NO" and no matter what..ur 18 yo or 19 yo did it anyway?...and you as a parent definitely had no idea...we have all done things in the past that we have kept from our parents...
I know all the parents are agonizing and in grief...as I would be too if something like this happened to my 18 yo...
I have read on too many boards that the parents are being criticized extremely....I would have taken the keys away and said "off limits" and dont be out past 1am...however, what's to really stop someone at this age from making these types of decisions...NOTHING...you cant CHAIN ur teen up in the house anymore...though I wish I could sometimes..believe me...
it hurts every parent when ur young adult teenager makes mistakes and they dont understand the morals...we do our BEST as parents...that's all our children would want...and we pray that they'll always be OK....
DAMN...I'm feelin for the parents...god bless to all...
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