Oh and you where correct about buycarparts.co.uk I purchased on Wednesday/Thursday then went on an online chat on Friday and went through the order details and they said "24 to 48 hours" so I said will Monday be the latest despatch date and they said "correct" so Monday comes and nothing? Start another chat on Tuesday and the chap said
He continued to say something about having to wait for supplier to say its ready can take up to a week but we can tell you it will be a couple of days.. but given what I've read online about people waiting in excess of a month, having incorrect parts delivered, being declined refunds due to x,y and z and I just thought sod this I can see in a week or so more problems and delays so I asked for a refund.. purchased from a chap in Poland instead for £119.99 on eBay, its estimated for 14 - 17th but at least I can rest easy knowing for sure it will arrive and plan ahead