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      05-25-2015, 11:44 PM   #969
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Mr.SugarSkulls oh man, that is horrible. I hope she will regret the decision that she wanted to have that "talk."



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How's this one for change.

Before my ex and I broke up, I had bought an engagement ring and planned to propose when I was back in town. When I came back from tour, she and I had the "talk".

I didn't even bother mentioning I was going to propose, let alone had the ring in my car. I ended up giving my friend the ring for free so he could then propose to his gf.

Thus, the asshole you see before you all.
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Just saying, women expect here to get everything for nothing.

I make good money and I have zero idea of what kind of shoes those were in the picture. I spent that money elsewhere.

I'm aware I still get asked out a lot, I also know I wasn't asked because what I'm wearing, but because of I love arguing, having a conversation.

I've made two female friends here in the USA.

I'm pretty damn glad to see Tara/ bimmette posting here. She has many qualities I can respect.


I truly try to defend every female in an environment as bimmerpost. Then I read something as that date report and realize there is nothing I can do that will save the individual from their own stupidity.
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My dating SOB stories are so ancient that I don't remember too clearly. (which is more sad than posting my SOB stories here)
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My dating SOB stories are so ancient that I don't remember too clearly. (which is more sad than posting my SOB stories here)
Amnesia is a bitch

I kiddddddd I kidddddd :P
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Similar but conjugate.
My male friends are so ego inflated that I try not to hang around with them.
Even I got married, I had more female friends than male friends due to that specific reasons.

However, when my female friends got married, it was same sh1t. Oh my husband this and that.

If I wanted to get into wee wee measuring contest, I would go as far as.......... *edited*

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Just saying, women expect here to get everything for nothing.

I make good money and I have zero idea of what kind of shoes those were in the picture. I spent that money elsewhere.

I'm aware I still get asked out a lot, I also know I wasn't asked because what I'm wearing, but because of I love arguing, having a conversation.

I've made two female friends here in the USA.

I'm pretty damn glad to see Tara/ bimmette posting here. She has many qualities I can respect.


I truly try to defend every female in an environment as bimmerpost. Then I read something as that date report and realize there is nothing I can do that will save the individual from their own stupidity.
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      05-25-2015, 11:59 PM   #974
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That forums all the same.

Dick measuring contests because they all feel they're hot shit cause they've got an m3/m4.

Personally, I like you OT people better. With all your flaws and imperfections
Just for a moment - Off Topic in OT...

The butt hurt is strong over there - both M4 and Hyundai Genesis owners!

That is some high quality hating from both sides

Now - back to our regularly scheduled soap...
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      05-26-2015, 12:11 AM   #975
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DId you get the watch the Genny Rspecs vs M4 video yet?



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The butt hurt is strong over there - both M4 and Hyundai Genesis owners!

That is some high quality hating from both sides

Now - back to our regularly scheduled soap...
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The butt hurt is strong over there - both M4 and Hyundai Genesis owners!

That is some high quality hating from both sides

Now - back to our regularly scheduled soap...
On my last run, one of these rolls their windows and told me he'd make a clip of it.

I told him better make it good.

He was about 100 meters in front of me before I left the lights like a granny.

You can aggravate anyone to anything. My golden rule is that the car i race is faster than mine. I don't mind losing but i expect the ones who can beat me also own theirs and that would make them think before being idiots.
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      05-26-2015, 12:45 AM   #977
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DId you get the watch the Genny Rspecs vs M4 video yet?
YES!...and FML for reading the train wreck thread

I.....just.....could.....not.....stop.....myself
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Just saying, women expect here to get everything for nothing.

I make good money and I have zero idea of what kind of shoes those were in the picture. I spent that money elsewhere.

I'm aware I still get asked out a lot, I also know I wasn't asked because what I'm wearing, but because of I love arguing, having a conversation.

I've made two female friends here in the USA.

I'm pretty damn glad to see Tara/ bimmette posting here. She has many qualities I can respect.


I truly try to defend every female in an environment as bimmerpost. Then I read something as that date report and realize there is nothing I can do that will save the individual from their own stupidity.
Sounds like you are just judging her because she is single and can do things you cannot.
So if your man were to leave you tomorrow (god forbid) you'd probably jump immediately into her camp.. how is that for consistency?


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On my last run, one of these rolls their windows and told me he'd make a clip of it.

I told him better make it good.

He was about 100 meters in front of me before I left the lights like a granny.

You can aggravate anyone to anything. My golden rule is that the car i race is faster than mine. I don't mind losing but i expect the ones who can beat me also own theirs and that would make them think before being idiots.
This sounds like circular reasoning based on ignoring of reality and tautology of supposed "facts".
Not trying to criticize you, Lups (oh wth I am, but just trying to not come across as a dick) but I thought if you wanted to share you professed beliefs here maybe you wanted some feedback? (haha, I doubt it, but wth if I don't try to be final judge-er everytime)
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...AND shit got real...AGAIN

So smithf32...who broke your heart in college?? And please be specific...
Honestly I am in a very happy relationship, it just observations from the high school days really.

Many (but not all) girls mature and get out of this phase after they get into the real world and out of high school, this hasn't happened for Sara.
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Sounds like you are just judging her because she is single and can do things you cannot.
So if your man were to leave you tomorrow (god forbid) you'd probably jump immediately into her camp.. how is that for consistency?

This sounds like circular reasoning based on ignoring of reality and tautology of supposed "facts".
Not trying to criticize you, Lups (oh wth I am, but just trying to not come across as a dick) but I thought if you wanted to share you professed beliefs here maybe you wanted some feedback? (haha, I doubt it, but wth if I don't try to be final judge-er everytime)
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Yeah grim, still friends.

If my man was smart enough to leave tomorrow, I doubt my life would change so much.

It's sad to say but we women truly do have a nasty tendency to repeat a pattern and expect a different outcome. One of my cases left her home state to get away from her boyfriend who beat her really badly. What does she do with her brand new starts?

Third time in a row she now has a man who enjoys this same treatment. Unreal. Daddy issues some would say but we are just this bad at seeing our own tendencies.

Anyway, I do wish all the best for the op. As the quarter eaten pizza flew past me I think I lost my belief I can actually make a difference in this world.
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If my man was smart enough to leave tomorrow, I doubt my life would change so much.

Third time in a row she now has a man who enjoys this same treatment. Unreal. Daddy issues some would say but we are just this bad at seeing our own tendencies.
First section. Your life would change dramatically, because I'd finally have my real chance at wooing you.

Second section; without reading previous pages, I'm going to take a wild guess that she again, got let down by some douche, and is upset because of a repeating cycle of loneliness and being used?
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First section. Your life would change dramatically, because I'd finally have my real chance at wooing you.

Second section; without reading previous pages, I'm going to take a wild guess that she again, got let down by some douche, and is upset because of a repeating cycle of loneliness and being used?
Haha Billup! So cute before coffee.

Yeah, page 41 is worth reading to get you up to date.

I washed my hands from this already but damn us women piss me off. Too many Disney movies and no will to understand what the princesses back in the fancy dress era were.
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Haha Billup! So cute before coffee.

Yeah, page 41 is worth reading to get you up to date.

I washed my hands from this already but damn us women piss me off. Too many Disney movies and no will to understand what the princesses back in the fancy dress era were.
I'm debating if I should go back and read or not. Sara, I feel bad for her somewhat. I'm sure it was just a spin off of everything that's already unfolded, and quite honestly, I'm bored now.

Normally, I'd agree, but you can't blame Disney for "incompetency".
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I'm debating if I should go back and read or not. Sara, I feel bad for her somewhat. I'm sure it was just a spin off of everything that's already unfolded, and quite honestly, I'm bored now.

Normally, I'd agree, but you can't blame Disney for "incompetency".
Oh how cruel of you to take my favorite company to blame away from me.

I do get why women here think they have no control over their lives, and I do understand how this cycle is born. I just really don't get it why we don't realize we ourselves are the problem and not the men.

But promise me Billup, just get yourself a female who doesn't annoy you to death next time around, will you?
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Oh how cruel of you to take my favorite company to blame away from me.

But promise me Billup, just get yourself a female who doesn't annoy you to death next time around, will you?
That's about the third time I've been called cruel in the past two days, what gives?

I can't make any promises, I usually don't find out these "tendencies" until I'm balls deep. By that time, it's usually an all or nothing kind of thing. I mean, look at me, I still haven't given up on you have I?


Women are too emotional, that's why. It's ingrained in your system. Some are stronger than others, some hold on to fantasies, and some hold on to the fact that all they have to give the world is their looks. Then you have men who are analytical thinkers, who just "do" and don't have any emotional connect.
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That's about the third time I've been called cruel in the past two days, what gives?

I can't make any promises, I usually don't find out these "tendencies" until I'm balls deep. By that time, it's usually an all or nothing kind of thing. I mean, look at me, I still haven't given up on you have I?


Women are too emotional, that's why. It's ingrained in your system. Some are stronger than others, some hold on to fantasies, and some hold on to the fact that all they have to give the world is their looks. Then you have men who are analytical thinkers, who just "do" and don't have any emotional connect.
You'll do fine next time around, I'll coach you!

Yes, we are. I'm no better than anyone of us. Men are emotional too, but unlike us, you usually base your self esteem on something else but to your partner or your looks. That makes it easier for you to move on.

Sorry for ranting. I repeated my own pattern this weekend by trying to cut a corner and not to get my puppy the only food her tummy approves, I actually did this to save a few extra minutes so I could get a nap. Because of that, I've slept 3 hours this weekend. The nap was good though.
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You'll do fine next time around, I'll coach you!

Yes, we are. I'm no better than anyone of us. Men are emotional too, but unlike us, you usually base your self esteem on something else but to your partner or your looks. That makes it easier for you to move on.

Sorry for ranting. I repeated my own pattern this weekend by trying to cut a corner and not to get my puppy the only food her tummy approves, I actually did this to save a few extra minutes so I could get a nap. Because of that, I've slept 3 hours this weekend. The nap was good though.
I don't have time for another time around! I need me a side girl that will help me paint my house and have sex between coats.

Very true. Mine is build on a hypothetical version of how I see myself, so it's a fake it and make it approach. That, and my dashing good looks and big penis help.

Don't apologize. Please. That drives me crazy. Why would you not get tummy approved food for the little pup? Was it an extra long endeavor to a different store? Sleep is precious, it shouldn't be sacrificed you know.
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Just saying, women expect here to get everything for nothing.

I make good money and I have zero idea of what kind of shoes those were in the picture. I spent that money elsewhere.

I'm aware I still get asked out a lot, I also know I wasn't asked because what I'm wearing, but because of I love arguing, having a conversation.

I've made two female friends here in the USA.

I'm pretty damn glad to see Tara/ bimmette posting here. She has many qualities I can respect.


I truly try to defend every female in an environment as bimmerpost. Then I read something as that date report and realize there is nothing I can do that will save the individual from their own stupidity.
You spend your husband's money on a $75k sports car, she spends her sugar daddy's money on shoes.

Regarding what you wrote about American women, a buddy of mine was married to a Czech Woman, She was worse than American Women, a very materialistic "stay at home mom". She had to have an $80k suv. My buddy is much happier now with an American girlfriend.

I dont know, maybe women from Sweden, Finland,Russia, Ukraine etc. Are different in general.
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