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      09-14-2021, 01:41 PM   #10583
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Losing Ferrasol in 2015 BROKE my heart. I couldn't function for days. I couldn't eat, sleep, go to work. I'd zone out while driving. It was awful.

When Blackie knocked me out I had my head split open, lost all memory of the accident, had stitches in my head, and was in agonizing pain during the recovery along with a fractured arm.

I'd much rather have another physical horse accident than lose another horse. You get drugs for physical pain. I still think of Ferrasol every day. Knowing I'm never going to see her again messes with your mind, your inner peace.
I get it, I have kids and have had pets. You can get drugs for a broken heart too - Abilify, Wellbutrin, prozac, etc. I've also owned horses. I don't have to involve my insurance provider over a broken heart though.

You are justified in your feelings though. Not trying to say that you aren't. Just discussing our d'rather's.
Wellbutrin yes, but Abilify is an anti psychotic tranquilizer like Seroquel, Thorazine, Haldol, etc. That medication is for psychos.
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Wellbutrin yes, but Abilify is an anti psychotic tranquilizer like Seroquel, Thorazine, Haldol, etc. That medication is for psychos.
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I kid. I'm completely sane. I mean, about as much as the rest of us anyway. I was prescribed all kinds of shit a few years ago. Completely lost my shit at Christmas a few years ago. Those that have seen my posts, concerning the matter, understand. I won't get back into it.
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Is this a euphemism for something?
Yeah, when your dad offers you a goldfish, demand the horse! Never settle
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Wellbutrin yes, but Abilify is an anti psychotic tranquilizer like Seroquel, Thorazine, Haldol, etc. That medication is for psychos.
Whistles quietly to himself, trying not to draw attention to the fact that he may or may not have been prescribed such a med in the past.

I kid. I'm completely sane. I mean, about as much as the rest of us anyway. I was prescribed all kinds of shit a few years ago. Completely lost my shit at Christmas a few years ago. Those that have seen my posts, concerning the matter, understand. I won't get back into it.
Haha! Well, if you needed it…..you needed it. When I deal with a 5150 who is off his/her meds, it's like dealing with a bucking Bronco.
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Losing Ferrasol in 2015 BROKE my heart. I couldn't function for days. I couldn't eat, sleep, go to work. I'd zone out while driving. It was awful.

When Blackie knocked me out I had my head split open, lost all memory of the accident, had stitches in my head, and was in agonizing pain during the recovery along with a fractured arm.

I'd much rather have another physical horse accident than lose another horse. You get drugs for physical pain. I still think of Ferrasol every day. Knowing I'm never going to see her again messes with your mind, your inner peace.
I get it, I have kids and have had pets. You can get drugs for a broken heart too - Abilify, Wellbutrin, prozac, etc. I've also owned horses. I don't have to involve my insurance provider over a broken heart though.

You are justified in your feelings though. Not trying to say that you aren't. Just discussing our d'rather's.
Wellbutrin yes, but Abilify is an anti psychotic tranquilizer like Seroquel, Thorazine, Haldol, etc. That medication is for psychos.
I mean. Someone should be writing 'scripts for that on these boards then.
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Losing Ferrasol in 2015 BROKE my heart. I couldn't function for days. I couldn't eat, sleep, go to work. I'd zone out while driving. It was awful.

When Blackie knocked me out I had my head split open, lost all memory of the accident, had stitches in my head, and was in agonizing pain during the recovery along with a fractured arm.

I'd much rather have another physical horse accident than lose another horse. You get drugs for physical pain. I still think of Ferrasol every day. Knowing I'm never going to see her again messes with your mind, your inner peace.
I get it, I have kids and have had pets. You can get drugs for a broken heart too - Abilify, Wellbutrin, prozac, etc. I've also owned horses. I don't have to involve my insurance provider over a broken heart though.

You are justified in your feelings though. Not trying to say that you aren't. Just discussing our d'rather's.
Wellbutrin yes, but Abilify is an anti psychotic tranquilizer like Seroquel, Thorazine, Haldol, etc. That medication is for psychos.
I mean. Someone should be writing 'scripts for that on these boards then.
There are a few people who need meds here, but they don't want the help.
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There are a few people who need meds here, but they don't want the help.
Who?!
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I was referring to the site as a whole, not necessarily the participants in this particular thread.
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I was referring to the site as a whole, not necessarily the participants in this particular thread.
This thread is a good bunch. If we were all sane, we'd be boring
I disagree. Lol! I don't need insanity to find enjoyment. The "fun" of insanity isn't sustainable, that's why we always ditch the insane woman and build a life with the sane woman.
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I disagree. Lol! I don't need insanity to find enjoyment. The "fun" of insanity isn't sustainable, that's why we always ditch the insane women and build a life with the sane women.
I beg to differ. My posts on an ambien high are way more entertaining than my regular posts.
….but nobody here is trying to build a life with you either (..and vice versa), so the considerations aren't hardly the same. This thread is The Matrix and is hardly representative of real life.

That said, I do find it entertaining at times.
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….but nobody here is trying to build a life with you either.
Nobody in this thread, but on this forum.......

Which leads me to my next dilemma. I may or may not have accepted a booked flight to see a forum member I havent seen in 8 or 9 years...this weekend...for 24 hours. Just as friends. Just catching up.
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….but nobody here is trying to build a life with you either.
Nobody in this thread, but on this forum.......

Which leads me to my next dilemma. I may or may not have accepted a booked flight to see a forum member I havent seen in 8 or 9 years...this weekend...for 24 hours. Just as friends. Just catching up.
Are you interested in him romantically? If so, the exploits get very old, so hopefully you can rein them in. I think everybody here hopes you find romantic homeostasis at some point.
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Are you interested in him romantically? If so, the exploits get very old, so hopefully you can rein them in. I think everybody here hopes you find romantic homeostasis at some point.
He's hot as shit. But I dont know. I havent seen in forever. I'm confused. Husband was saying a lot futuristic things and it scared me. I don't if he's falling too fast and it's scaring me. He's soo wonderful. I don't know what's wrong with me.
So I have to ask…..


…Do you want a guy to see a future with you or not? I ask sincerely because when they see you as a toy for the moment, that's an issue…….but when they try to usher in some relationship longevity, that seems to be an issue too.

Maybe it would be more prudent to not date or involve yourself with anybody at all until you do some sincere soul searching so you aren't wasting their time and yours.
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So I have to ask…..


…Do you want a guy to see a future with you or not? I ask sincerely because when they see you as a toy for the moment, that's an issue…….but when they try to usher in some relationship longevity, that seems to be an issue too.

Maybe it would be more prudent to not date or involve yourself with anybody at all until you do some sincere soul searching so you aren't wasting their time and yours.
Down the road, I'd like to think so, yes.

Right now? I don't know. We both met up with zero expectations and I make that crystal clear. We both had THE BEST first date, which caught me by surprise and the realistic person in me keeps reminding myself that this isn't going to work out long term and I should nip it in the bud right now. Which is really hard to do when I have a great time every time I see him.
So all of the "horse over heartbreak" is just nonsense fodder then?!? I mean….you continue to set yourself up for the same outcome, so maybe…..secretly……subconsciously…..you just enjoy tumult, uncertainty and a certain level of instability. If you don't enjoy it, you most certainly welcome it.
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So all of the "horse over heartbreak" is just nonsense fodder then?!? I mean….you continue to set yourself up for the same outcome, so maybe…..secretly……subconsciously…..you just enjoy tumult, uncertainty and a certain level of instability. If you don't enjoy it, you most certainly welcome it.
My horses can't leave me I'm not setting myself up for a heart break there.
Ahhh, it's the possessive. If you left the gate or stable open I'm sure they might. They aren't exactly operating on completely free will. I'm just poking!
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Ahhh, it's the possessive. If you left the gate or stable open I'm sure they might. They aren't exactly operating on completely free will. I'm just poking!
Those bitches are microchipped. Their asses are coming straight back to me!
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Jesus what a dumpster fire lol. Went from simping to horses to heart break, prescription drugs, glue factory, Disney princess mentality, love life or lack there of and more prescription drugs.

All in a course of an hour of course, lol
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Haha! Well, if you needed it…..you needed it. When I deal with a 5150 who is off his/her meds, it's like dealing with a bucking Bronco.
Oh I don't disagree there! I've dealt with many! My problem was that I didn't need it. I wasn't crazy, I just dealt with more shit than any person should be expected to deal with in a matter of 2 weeks. Simple depression, that was it. Hard to explain this to a therapist, who didn't want to listen to their patient, but felt like everything should be handled with meds. The only craziness about me, aside from the obvious, was what the meds did to me. I stopped the meds cold turkey, which I also HIGHLY do not recommend, after that; I suddenly became the pillar of the community that you all have come to love and admire.
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Jesus what a dumpster fire lol. Went from simping to horses to heart break, prescription drugs, glue factory, Disney princess mentality, love life or lack there of and more prescription drugs.

All in a course of an hour of course, lol
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