A little help for Sarah's last wish

shortie · 12-20-2012, 08:57 AM

For those of you who are not aware, I lost my partner on 13/12/12 after an 18 month battle with Breast Cancer, she was such a loving and caring person and at the age of 28 did not deserve this (not that anybody does). she had just qualified as a nurse and would do anything to help anyone.

One of the last things Sarah asked me to do was to raise as much money as i can for those who have supported her through the tough times. Breast friends and The cancer Support Center have been incredible and gone to every length to assist, we really would like to repay them as best as we can.

http://www.suttoncancersupport.org

http://www.breastfriends.org.uk

If you have a spare pound or so could i ask you to help me with her wish. If you cannot afford anything then can you please spread the word as far as you can in hope to reach those who do have a spare pound.

http://www.justgiving.com/sarah-tasewych

Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Rest in peace beautiful xxx

dxb335d · 12-20-2012, 09:15 AM

Shortie, I cannot believe what I have just read.

I am ever so sorry to hear of your loss.

RagingKileak · 12-20-2012, 09:47 AM

Mate I am so sorry to read this.

It seems like only a short while ago I commented on your build thread and was looking forward to seeing the progress. I realise now that must have been around 18 months ago and of course, you'll have had a great deal of strife in between.

My mum survived fairly serious breast cancer in 2009/10 and I know how awful it can be. Cancer is an absolute lottery and one of the cruellest and most unpredictable diseases that can affect mankind.

I am sure there is no consolation we can offer but to reiterate, I am so sorry to hear of your loss and I will of course make my next donation with you and Sarah in my thoughts.

Matt

creepy coupe · 12-20-2012, 09:48 AM

Shortie. Nothing I can say can make a difference. I can only imagine what you're going through right now.

My wife was diagnosed with BC five years ago and has just stopped her course of Tamoxifen. We're some of the lucky ones. And know from first hand what great work the likes of Cancer research UK and our own NHS can do. Count us in Mate.

xenon · 12-20-2012, 09:54 AM

What an awful time of year it must be for you. Consider it done and the very best of luck.

Ian

Dizzle · 12-20-2012, 10:07 AM

Deepest sympathies Leon, I cant imagine having to go through that, thoughts are with you and the family.

Wish you all the best for this great cause.

dotmit · 12-20-2012, 10:13 AM

Robin330i · 12-20-2012, 10:33 AM

So sorry to hear this - thought are with you and your family. Donation sent.

mob17 · 12-20-2012, 11:43 AM

Even though we are strangers i feel your pain. It puts a lot of things into perspective reading that.

I pray that you can go through the pain. I can't imagine how hard it must feel.

M3-FAST · 12-20-2012, 12:42 PM

I have just read your post twice as I couldn't take it all in the first time. I can't comprehend what you must be going through. I have made a donation and hope that Sarah's wish of a decent sum raised comes to fruition.

All the very best

Paul

Mwp4me · 12-20-2012, 01:10 PM

Thoughts and prayers are with you.

Hotcoupe · 12-20-2012, 01:25 PM

Dreadful news Shortie,you have both my deepest sympathy and profound empathy.

Sadly my younger sister was diagnosed only recently,and is currently undergoing chemo after a mastectomy,so I can identify with you just how tough life can be travelling on such a dreadful journey,whether as a sufferer, a loving partner or family members.

All the best for the future,and a donation is the least one can do.

zltm089 · 12-20-2012, 01:29 PM

Sorry to hear this mate.

I've posted a link to the TT forum...

shortie · 12-20-2012, 01:30 PM

Thank you everyone, you have all been so very kind.

magic77 · 12-20-2012, 02:08 PM

So sorry to hear this, having lost my mum to lukemia its not things which are easy to deal with. Will spread the word and donated some.

Admins can we get a sticky on this !!!!

just giving you can do it via paypal takes seconds even if everybody gives a £5 (one pint less on friday night) we can make a small difference.

mistryn · 12-20-2012, 02:43 PM

my deepest condolonces to you and family, I cannot imagine for one second what you and fmaily must be going through but Im sure you have the e90 forum community to help and give you support through a difficult time

- Paul - · 12-20-2012, 02:44 PM

What a moving story - my thoughts are with you. I'll spread the word as much as I can re the appeal.

dxb335d · 12-20-2012, 02:48 PM

Speechless really. I donated earlier Shortie. I hope you can raise lots in Sarah's memory.

A_P · 12-20-2012, 02:55 PM

My deepest condolences for your loss buddy.

makkan00 · 12-20-2012, 02:57 PM

Shortie
It is sad to read this and one can hardly imagine losing partner. Cannot even imagine what you are going through.
All the prayers and wishes. Some donation on its way.

jedster · 12-20-2012, 03:17 PM

Can't imagine your loss, mate.

Condolences to your and your family.

Mike in Hampshire · 12-20-2012, 03:24 PM

Shortie, your post brought a tear to my eye I have to admit. Brave of you to be so up front about this sad news and I am sure she would approve of the thread. I hope the next few days are bearable for you, it's an emotional time of year. All the best pal. Donation on way. Trust me, it gets easier, in time.
Mike.

12-20-2012, 08:57 AM	#1
shortie Lieutenant 48 Rep 573 Posts Drives: BMW 320i M sport Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: West Midlands UK iTrader: (0)	A little help for Sarah's last wish For those of you who are not aware, I lost my partner on 13/12/12 after an 18 month battle with Breast Cancer, she was such a loving and caring person and at the age of 28 did not deserve this (not that anybody does). she had just qualified as a nurse and would do anything to help anyone. One of the last things Sarah asked me to do was to raise as much money as i can for those who have supported her through the tough times. Breast friends and The cancer Support Center have been incredible and gone to every length to assist, we really would like to repay them as best as we can. http://www.suttoncancersupport.org http://www.breastfriends.org.uk If you have a spare pound or so could i ask you to help me with her wish. If you cannot afford anything then can you please spread the word as far as you can in hope to reach those who do have a spare pound. http://www.justgiving.com/sarah-tasewych Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Rest in peace beautiful xxx __________________
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dxb335d The Tarmac Terrorist 949 Rep 29,345 Posts Drives: 997.2 GT3 Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: ''Fandango Towers'' iTrader: (3) Garage List 2010 Porsche 997.2 GT3 [9.50] 2003 BMW E46 M3 [6.00] 2007 BMW E92 335D [5.50]	Shortie, I cannot believe what I have just read. I am ever so sorry to hear of your loss. __________________ 997.2 GT3
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RagingKileak Brigadier General 191 Rep 4,655 Posts Drives: M3 CS Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Yorkshire iTrader: (2)	Mate I am so sorry to read this. It seems like only a short while ago I commented on your build thread and was looking forward to seeing the progress. I realise now that must have been around 18 months ago and of course, you'll have had a great deal of strife in between. My mum survived fairly serious breast cancer in 2009/10 and I know how awful it can be. Cancer is an absolute lottery and one of the cruellest and most unpredictable diseases that can affect mankind. I am sure there is no consolation we can offer but to reiterate, I am so sorry to hear of your loss and I will of course make my next donation with you and Sarah in my thoughts. Matt
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creepy coupe Lieutenant General 1867 Rep 13,043 Posts Drives: BMW M340I G20 Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: UK iTrader: (2) Garage List 2015 BMW 435d [0.00] 2009 335i [0.00]	Shortie. Nothing I can say can make a difference. I can only imagine what you're going through right now. My wife was diagnosed with BC five years ago and has just stopped her course of Tamoxifen. We're some of the lucky ones. And know from first hand what great work the likes of Cancer research UK and our own NHS can do. Count us in Mate.
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xenon Major General 1397 Rep 8,083 Posts Drives: 2021 G21 330i M-Sport Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Coventry iTrader: (0)	What an awful time of year it must be for you. Consider it done and the very best of luck. Ian __________________ Ian Current: 2021 G21 330i M-Sport Previous: 2018 A6 Avant S-Line MMI+, 2014 F31 320d M-Sport, 2013 F10 520d M-Sport, 2011 F10 530d M-Sport, 2008 320i M-Sport Coupe, 2002 325i, 2001 318i valvetronic, 1998 318i, 1996 525i, 1990 Porsche 944S2
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Dizzle Major 56 Rep 1,255 Posts Drives: F30 335xD Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: UK, Staffordshire iTrader: (0)	Deepest sympathies Leon, I cant imagine having to go through that, thoughts are with you and the family. Wish you all the best for this great cause. Last edited by Dizzle; 12-20-2012 at 10:14 AM..
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Robin330i Lieutenant 36 Rep 512 Posts Drives: E90 330i M Sport Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Cheshire iTrader: (2)	So sorry to hear this - thought are with you and your family. Donation sent. __________________ E90 330i M Sport - Honda S2000
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mob17 Major General 400 Rep 5,623 Posts Drives: E92 335D Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East Midlands, UK iTrader: (5)	Even though we are strangers i feel your pain. It puts a lot of things into perspective reading that. I pray that you can go through the pain. I can't imagine how hard it must feel.
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M3-FAST Defected to the dark side..... 210 Rep 5,795 Posts Drives: BMW M5 LCi Join Date: May 2007 Location: Stafford, UK iTrader: (11) Garage List 2009 E90 M3 [10.00] 2007 325i M-sport C ... [9.00]	I have just read your post twice as I couldn't take it all in the first time. I can't comprehend what you must be going through. I have made a donation and hope that Sarah's wish of a decent sum raised comes to fruition. All the very best Paul
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Mwp4me Banned 10 Rep 235 Posts Drives: E92 320i M Sport Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Cumbria iTrader: (0)	Thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Hotcoupe Major General 192 Rep 6,110 Posts Drives: Don't know yet! Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: UK iTrader: (2) Garage List November 2008 335D ... [8.34] 2007 335D [0.00]	Dreadful news Shortie,you have both my deepest sympathy and profound empathy. Sadly my younger sister was diagnosed only recently,and is currently undergoing chemo after a mastectomy,so I can identify with you just how tough life can be travelling on such a dreadful journey,whether as a sufferer, a loving partner or family members. All the best for the future,and a donation is the least one can do. __________________ ================================= Never argue with an idiot on the internet. He will drag you down to his level and beat you with experience.
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shortie Lieutenant 48 Rep 573 Posts Drives: BMW 320i M sport Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: West Midlands UK iTrader: (0)	Thank you everyone, you have all been so very kind. __________________
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magic77 Brigadier General 258 Rep 3,815 Posts Drives: ex- 335i Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Surrey iTrader: (2)	So sorry to hear this, having lost my mum to lukemia its not things which are easy to deal with. Will spread the word and donated some. Admins can we get a sticky on this !!!! just giving you can do it via paypal takes seconds even if everybody gives a £5 (one pint less on friday night) we can make a small difference. __________________ F30 335i M Sport - now departed
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mistryn Colonel 147 Rep 2,048 Posts Drives: BMW 335D Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Mids iTrader: (8)	my deepest condolonces to you and family, I cannot imagine for one second what you and fmaily must be going through but Im sure you have the e90 forum community to help and give you support through a difficult time
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- Paul - Major General 695 Rep 7,308 Posts Drives: see above. Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Yorkshire, UK iTrader: (5) Garage List 2005 320D SE [10.00] 2005 645 [9.00]	What a moving story - my thoughts are with you. I'll spread the word as much as I can re the appeal. __________________ My Photos
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A_P Lieutenant Colonel 57 Rep 1,698 Posts Drives: E46 M3 Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: South East iTrader: (0)	My deepest condolences for your loss buddy.
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makkan00 Major General 886 Rep 9,097 Posts Drives: F83 and F36 Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Essex iTrader: (56)	Shortie It is sad to read this and one can hardly imagine losing partner. Cannot even imagine what you are going through. All the prayers and wishes. Some donation on its way. __________________ F36 Xdrive for her - HUD, park assist, heated steering wheel, rear camera, Apple car play F36 RWD for him - HK, M sports pack, GTS tail light, Apple car play
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jedster New Member 0 Rep 11 Posts Drives: 2009 Pre-LCI 335i (DCT) Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Beds/Herts iTrader: (2)	Can't imagine your loss, mate. Condolences to your and your family.
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12-20-2012, 03:24 PM	#22
Mike in Hampshire Lieutenant 16 Rep 529 Posts Drives: None at present! Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: England iTrader: (1)	Shortie, your post brought a tear to my eye I have to admit. Brave of you to be so up front about this sad news and I am sure she would approve of the thread. I hope the next few days are bearable for you, it's an emotional time of year. All the best pal. Donation on way. Trust me, it gets easier, in time. Mike.
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