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      12-06-2012, 11:45 AM   #1
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Pros and Cons of being in a relationship

The Holiday seasons usually remind single people of their loneliness and couples of their great or horrible relationships.

I want to ask my fellow OT'ers to list either ONE pro OR ONE con of being in a relationship.

For clarification, heterosexual relationships (no offense to others...)

I'll say a pro is constant sex w/o too much doubt that she may have contracted a STD in between last time you had sexy time.
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      12-06-2012, 11:55 AM   #2
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thank you for reminding me of my loneliness.
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      12-06-2012, 11:56 AM   #3
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thank you for reminding me of my loneliness.
and extra money right?
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      12-06-2012, 11:57 AM   #4
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and extra money right?
way to put a smile on my face
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      12-06-2012, 12:10 PM   #5
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Con: having to always watch what you're saying! ie; 'Daaaaaammmmnnnnnn look at that sluts assssssss' is not acceptable
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      12-06-2012, 12:16 PM   #6
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Relationship:
+consistent sex
+someone to do stuff with
-monotony
-less $
-tied to 1 vag

Single:
+no ties
+more $
+multiple vags
-no consistent sex
-forever alone
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      12-06-2012, 12:20 PM   #7
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Pro: sex... That's about it.

Oh and um... together... ness. Or something like that.
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      12-06-2012, 12:25 PM   #8
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way to put a smile on my face
1 smile a day. that's all I live for...

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Relationship:
+consistent sex
+someone to do stuff with
-monotony
-less $
-tied to 1 vag

Single:
+no ties
+more $
+multiple vags
-no consistent sex
-forever alone
or - "why are my testicles itching...?"
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      12-06-2012, 12:48 PM   #9
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anyone here have 2+ gf's (or know of someone)?

the closest i've personally known was a guy who had a gf and a booty call (they didn't know each other but accepted it)
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      12-06-2012, 02:36 PM   #10
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Interesting thread OP. Had this thought on my mind myself this last while about what I want.
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      12-06-2012, 02:44 PM   #11
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Interesting thread OP. Had this thought on my mind myself this last while about what I want.
Huh?
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      12-06-2012, 03:10 PM   #12
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Interesting thread OP. Had this thought on my mind myself this last while about what I want.
So let's hear it man. wuddya think?

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Huh?
Right? It's like a trick sentence.
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      12-06-2012, 04:18 PM   #13
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I'm just interested in hearing what others see as pros or cons. Cause there's no doubt that some pros to me, will be cons to others. I'm just weighing up if the pros currently outweigh the cons!
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Between 16-40 single may have more pros vs cons, past 40 forever aloe
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relationships are awesome.

marriage is awesome.

i'm mexican so i'm always just sitting around the house while my wife cooks, cleans or does random shit around the house in her panties...

two kids are beautiful.....

job is fan-freaking-tastic...

we're going to the "North Pole" on Sunday with the kids. gonna drive @ 2.5 hours to a town called Palestine Texas, which is where the Texas RailRoad place is....

gonna get on a train, get some hot coco, cookies, sing songs and roll to the North Pole

i'd rather be in this marriage spending all my hard earned money on my wife, kids and toys than to be single, rich and not have this life....
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I save a LOT of time not having to think/chase/dream about somebody. I just go to work, eat, sleep, get laid and BJd, and pursue my hobbies and play with my kids.

I'd rather NOT be young and single. I don't even miss it ONE bit.

Maybe I'm just the marrying type...
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I save a LOT of time not having to think/chase/dream about somebody. I just go to work, eat, sleep, get laid and BJd, and pursue my hobbies and play with my kids.

I'd rather NOT be young and single. I don't even miss it ONE bit.

Maybe I'm just the marrying type...
this guy gets it....
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      12-07-2012, 08:31 AM   #18
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here are my two kids and their Challengers.

yes, those are in fact "His and Hers Challengers"



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i'd rather be in this marriage spending all my hard earned money on my wife, kids and toys than to be single, rich and not have this life....
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I'd rather NOT be young and single. I don't even miss it ONE bit.
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      12-07-2012, 12:22 PM   #20
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PRO: Im single again!
Con: I have too much spare money in my wallet making my back hurt.

In all honestly though, both lifestyles have positives and negatives, which will be different for everyone.
I miss it alot sometimes but hey I made the decision for various reasons.
How will you meet the right person if you're committed to the wrong person?
That was the con in my personal situation recently... it just wasn't right.
I don't want to stay single, just trying to enjoy it for the time being.
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^^^^^^ if you're spending "that much" money on a dumb broad that isn't even committed to you, then you're the freaking idiot.

i dish out a lot of money for my wife and kids, but i ain't going poor doing it - i have to support them.

if all that "extra money" is now available after being used by some skank, then you may have to re-evaluate why you're on this earth....
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here are my two kids and their Challengers.

yes, those are in fact "His and Hers Challengers"



Hey! The little litos!

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