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      03-27-2020, 03:00 PM   #6315
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whats the tolerable age difference for man and woman?
5-10 years less or more? anyone wants to tell their ideas?
My wife is almost 10 years younger than I am. But she is the one who pursued me!
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My wife is almost 10 years younger than I am. But she is the one who pursued me!
I've dated women 20 or more years older than me in my life too. Don't regret any of it. Got free trips & shit and/or great sex.

I've been on both sides. Dated women in their 40s when I was in my 20s & now that I am in my 30s, dated women in their 50s. Ill be 39 next month & my last gf was 51. Not everyone looks like your Grandmother.
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whats the tolerable age difference for man and woman?
5-10 years less or more? anyone wants to tell their ideas?
As long as either of the individuals are of legal age, I don't see any reason why age is a factor at all. Personally I wouldn't date someone who is considerably younger as I wouldn't be able to relate with them nor would they be able to relate with me. Life lessons and experience is more of a compelling factor in my opinion.

I sit next to someone at work, in their 60's, that acts like a 5 year old. I also dated a girl 15 years younger than me that acted more mature than most people my age. It's all in conditioning and life experience if you ask me.

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I've dated women 20 or more years older than me in my life too. Don't regret any of it. Got free trips & shit and/or great sex.

I've been on both sides. Dated women in their 40s when I was in my 20s & now that I am in my 30s, dated women in their 50s. Ill be 39 next month & my last gf was 51. Not everyone looks like your Grandmother.
How about those older ladies eh? I "dated" a girl in her late twenties when I was 16. Also had an arrangement with a woman in her 50's when I was in my early 30's. I've only dated one older woman that was a complete bust. That bitch was cuh-RAY-zee, but it had nothing to do with her age.
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As long as either of the individuals are of legal age, I don't see any reason why age is a factor at all. Personally I wouldn't date someone who is considerably younger as I wouldn't be able to relate with them nor would they be able to relate with me. Life lessons and experience is more of a compelling factor in my opinion.

I sit next to someone at work, in their 60's, that acts like a 5 year old. I also dated a girl 15 years younger than me that acted more mature than most people my age. It's all in conditioning and life experience if you ask me.
Being almost 40, I can relate to the can't deal with younger women thing. Great for FWB type stuff, but LTR? Nothing to talk about and they look at my like I am from Saturn when I talk about awesome 80s stuff.

I tend to date older than myself these days. Current FWB (I bet she sees it as more) is my age, though. At least she can relate to what I talk about.
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Being almost 40, I can relate to the can't deal with younger women thing. Great for FWB type stuff, but LTR? Nothing to talk about and they look at my like I am from Saturn when I talk about awesome 80s stuff.

I tend to date older than myself these days. Current FWB (I bet she sees it as more) is my age, though. At least she can relate to what I talk about.
Exactly! Went on a date with a younger girl before I started dating the current girlfriend. The conversation was so lacking, I just wanted it to end. Very attractive girl but when she talked I just wanted her to stop. When I spoke, she looked at me like deer in headlights. Completely clueless about anything I said.

Another point in this topic is that it's a rarity for women, who are younger, to really be what we are looking for in the bedroom. Lack of experience again. If a girl is good in bed and younger than 25, you don't want to be in a relationship with her.

One of my favorite Andrew Dice Clay bits - Walking back and forth on stage, he keeps checking out this woman in the front row. He finally asks the guy sitting next to her if it was his girlfriend. The guy replies with "yes." Dice asks, "Is she good in bed?" The guy responds, "Hell yes!" Dice asks, "How do you think she got to be that way???"
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whats the tolerable age difference for man and woman?
5-10 years less or more? anyone wants to tell their ideas?
5-10 is fine although 10 is quite a gap (to me personally). Would I mind? No.. as long as she is mature.

I want to be able to talk about things that happened in a previous decade that she would remember lol.
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Even after explaining it, when I walk by one of my younger coworkers at the shredder, and say Watergate, they just stare at me

My wife is +4. Her sister's husband is +17, and they are approaching 30 years of marriage. Even he admits she is so much more mature than he
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Day 16 of Quarantine: It seems endless. Already ran through all of Pornhub 63 times. Running low on supplies and very high on hormones. jkjk i still have almost all of what i need

On the bright side, everyone's locked in and bored so I've been working on my text game.

How's quarantine treating you gents?
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Day 16 of Quarantine: It seems endless. Already ran through all of Pornhub 63 times. Running low on supplies and very high on hormones. jkjk i still have almost all of what i need

On the bright side, everyone's locked in and bored so I've been working on my text game.

How's quarantine treating you gents?
hehe 63 times? you should change your diet to a lower protein one..
and hopefully these days will be over with least casualties as possible worldwide and until then, staying safe and stacking up some candies using online sources might be a good idea..
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Okay this is bad
Stay at home extended until April 30

I had big plans for April 7th
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Seems like women on these apps don't want to talk lately. There have always been some that take days to reply, but seems like it's every one of them doing that bs now. F em
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Okay this is bad
Stay at home extended until April 30

I had big plans for April 7th
What happens on 4/7? My birthday is 4/15 & migraine was talking about taking a trip to FL. Can't do that now!
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What happens on 4/7? My birthday is 4/15 & migraine was talking about taking a trip to FL. Can't do that now!
The stay at home thing was going to be lifted...
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whats the tolerable age difference for man and woman?
5-10 years less or more? anyone wants to tell their ideas?
Here I think that this depends on your personal decades. Wifey and me are 15 years apart, but we are both into an age where most things are settled and no too big lifetime surprises should occur (finger crossed).
Doing this as an early 30 with a, lets say 18yo girl...well, I wont set a bet on you as long as a long term relationship is the goal
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"If the corona virus doesn't take you out, can I?"

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That's a fantastic ice-breaker! And she didn't go for it? Well, as they say...there's no accounting for taste. No sense of humor is a real deal-breaker for me.
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That's a fantastic ice-breaker! And she didn't go for it? Well, as they say...there's no accounting for taste. No sense of humor is a real deal-breaker for me.
Still not a peep and it's been about a week - just deleted her.
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That's a fantastic ice-breaker! And she didn't go for it? Well, as they say...there's no accounting for taste. No sense of humor is a real deal-breaker for me.
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Still not a peep and it's been about a week - just deleted her.
Girls in my area have already started saying "dont open with covid jokes"...
Just something to keep in mind
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I had big plans for April 7th
lol did you actually think this would be over with by 4/7?

better cancel all of your plans for may as well, 4/30 is still a very unrealistic timeline.
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lol did you actually think this would be over with by 4/7?

better cancel all of your plans for may as well, 4/30 is still a very unrealistic timeline.
I do recall you being a doctor (or I'm completely pulling this out my ass, equally plausible) so I'll take your word

But if that's the case, might as well castrate myself to focus myself on work by removing all distractions
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I do recall you being a doctor (or I'm completely pulling this out my ass, equally plausible) so I'll take your word

But if that's the case, might as well castrate myself to focus myself on work by removing all distractions
lol nah im an engineer
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Girls in my area have already started saying "dont open with covid jokes"...
Just something to keep in mind
If your data is from girls your age, I'm not surprised. The education system and virtue signallers in the media have succeeded in indoctrinating young people to believe that absolutely nothing is funny. No more jokes about ethnicities or any other identity; I can't make jokes about the Irish, even though I'm almost 100% Irish. No more jokes about male-female relationships - because THE PATRIARCHY!. We can't laugh about someone's misfortune, not even our own - because someone out there will have made the same mistake, and me joking about it might crush their fragile spirit. Humor is based, in large part, on pushing the boundaries of what's offensive. When everything's offensive, there aren't any boundaries to push and the whole system falls apart.

Comedians used to love doing gigs at college campuses. It was pretty lucrative, and they knew the college wasn't going to stiff them. There are almost no comedians playing colleges any more. Because they realized some time ago that pushing the boundaries of taste and decency wasn't allowed there.
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Exactly! Went on a date with a younger girl before I started dating the current girlfriend. The conversation was so lacking, I just wanted it to end. Very attractive girl but when she talked I just wanted her to stop. When I spoke, she looked at me like deer in headlights. Completely clueless about anything I said.

Another point in this topic is that it's a rarity for women, who are younger, to really be what we are looking for in the bedroom. Lack of experience again. If a girl is good in bed and younger than 25, you don't want to be in a relationship with her.

One of my favorite Andrew Dice Clay bits - Walking back and forth on stage, he keeps checking out this woman in the front row. He finally asks the guy sitting next to her if it was his girlfriend. The guy replies with "yes." Dice asks, "Is she good in bed?" The guy responds, "Hell yes!" Dice asks, "How do you think she got to be that way???"
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