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05-20-2013, 02:02 PM | #1 |
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This will take 5 minutes of your guys time. Anyway, so I have been on this chick for the past 3 years. She always avoided a relationship but I kept persisting to get somewhere with her, but it never happened. We always went out on dates, kissed, did things as a couple, but I never did close the deal. She always said she was not ready for a relationship. I have no idea why I still liked her. Maybe because this is the first girl I chased and actually tried hard with. Long story short, I had not talked to her in weeks. So I called her the other day and she answered and said "Text me, Bye!" and hung up the phone. So a day later, I sent her a text saying Don't you ever talk to me again like I'm a fuc*ing nobody."And her reply was "SIKE! You're nothing but a joke."
I'm 22, and successful for my age. I'm thankfully blessed with handsome genes, and have no problem getting women. I guess there was something just about this particular one. Question is, how should I approach this. I'm thinking about never talking to the broad again. But I need some input on what you all would do? And I have not replied to her yet. |
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By becoming this worked up about it....you have become a joke.
I'm not making fun of you, but she's right. Don't worry about the broad. Exactly like you said: you're young and doing well for yourself. Girls eat that s*** up. Since the beginning of time, there have and will always be girls who think they're 9's when they're really 5's. Don't consume yourself with it. Find someone new and you'll forget all about her. Or even better, smash her best friend. |
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05-20-2013, 02:21 PM | #8 |
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You're always going to be a joke if you're chasing her and she knows it.
You tried to pull a power move by telling her not to talk to you "like a fucking nobody" but that shit only works when you actually have the power, which you don't in this scenario. She called your bluff.
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05-20-2013, 02:22 PM | #9 |
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^Ok dude, I don't know anything about you..
but from what you posted, you complain the girl thinks you are a joke, you say you have been blessed by genes .. so either you or the chick has it wrong, correct? |
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05-20-2013, 02:22 PM | #10 | |
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Thanks for your reply. Well I didn't reply to her. Only you guys know that I got worked up by it. |
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No lol. I'm saying I was on this chick for 3 years. Tried to be in a relationship. She pissed me off by saying "text me, bye". I sent the text and she called me "a joke." I didn't understand the concept, and was wondering how I should go about it. If that makes any more sense? |
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05-20-2013, 02:33 PM | #15 |
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I can't understand how there's people this shitty around. All sweet and then.. bam.. some girls man..
Just move on, you've apparently got it made, enjoy it! There are plenty of better girls out there for you who would be happy to take her place. Plus if you just drop and ignore her, she seems like the type to come back (don't fall for it) and you can have her chase you around (still, move on). I know it will be hard after three years. Try to focus on what amazing girls you can find out there.
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05-20-2013, 02:36 PM | #16 |
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^Are you both the same type of person =thinks you're hot shit (last time I mention it, i promise)?
Because that may be why you have this interesting dynamic of trying to "one-up" each other .. Do you know if she likes you or not? Because if she knows how much you like her, even if she is not that interested, she may keep you on the line as a fall-back security blanket and to ego-boost herself to get someone she wants |
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05-20-2013, 02:47 PM | #17 | |
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Well obviously I thought she liked me. Hell, we clicked like crazy and we'd talk all the time. But I'm not down for the entire "security blanket." So I'm just figuring to cross her out my life. |
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05-20-2013, 02:55 PM | #18 | |
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They only way she should get back in your life is by knocking on your door. No other communication until that happens. Cause if she's serious enough about getting with you, she'll show up at your door after you not responding to her.... if she calls or texts you that is.
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is probably out riding.
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Most people who want the power don't know how to get it and if they by chance had it, they don't know how to hold on to it. With girls, 99 times out of a hundo, acting like you don't want the power provokes them into giving it to you.
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05-20-2013, 03:02 PM | #21 |
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Approx. number of US females aged 18-24 - 15,300,000
Number of those who think you're a joke - 1 Math is on your side. Relax.
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05-20-2013, 03:16 PM | #22 |
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